I know it's after Simchas Torah, but I just have to add...
In my shul we have a bidding war- men against women- for kiddush and havdalah for the year (i.e. sponsoring the "ner l'meor v'yayin lkiddush"). The selling point is that the rav makes a misheberach every week for all those who contribute to it! Funnily enough, most years the women more than double the men's collective bid. Maybe because the men are so tapped out from bidding on everything else
I know this year the total raised was over 10k...!