A get should never be used as leverage. Period.If you need leverage for custody, finances, etc, use the beis din and/or the civil system. There are plenty of options for settling the dispute no matter how nasty it gets.A halachic divorce is not negotiable, however. I understand that many times the wife is at fault and the husband may feel that he is correct in using a get as leverage but I just don't see it because too many times it is abused by the husband.Absolute power, however righteous, is unacceptable.
thats my 2 cents on the matter.enjoy.
Random.Maskim.
The Torah allows for a coerced get
so I take that to mean that a husband should never be holding it back.
The Torah allows for a coerced get so I take that to mean that a husband should never be holding it back.
Can we lock this thread. It was dormant for so long. Why the need to revive it for the same arguments
How about soemthing new then? Any updated on the DDF member?
אמר רב יהודה בריה דרב שמואל בר שילת משמיה דרב כשם שמשנכנס אב ממעטין בשמחה כך משנכנס אדר מרבין בשמחה אמר רב פפא הלכך בר ישראל דאית ליה דינא בהדי נכרי לישתמיט מיניה באב דריע מזליה ולימצי נפשיה באדר דבריא מזליה
Was just in a Seforim store and saw they had a book "A Woman's Guide To The Get" By Mendel Epstein
Which one?!
I read that book a while ago.
Is it more complicated then "cattle prods?
Writing that all TOANIM like him are honest and ALL judges are bad is not that complicated.
1 defendant just pleaded guilty. Wonder if he agreed to testify against the others.