For those who were looking: I reached out to tens of dealers across NJ, NY, PA, MD. Was willing to do phone call follow up as well as email/text. Yesterday I put down a $500 reservation on a 2023 Sienna LE in transit at a dealer in upstate NY about 4.5 hours from Lakewood, selling at MSRP plus 350 in DMV fees, 37669 total. Car should come in sometime in Jan or Feb and they expect me to pick up within two days once it comes in. No financing and I will need to register and pay sales tax in NJ on my own