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Re: BD"E Jewda, You Will Be Missed
« Reply #200 on: November 08, 2013, 11:03:06 AM »
It seems like she put in mother's name, shouldn't it be father's name for mishnayos?
Not for sfardim.
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Re: BD"E Jewda, You Will Be Missed
« Reply #201 on: November 08, 2013, 11:03:25 AM »
It seems like she put in mother's name, shouldn't it be father's name for mishnayos?
Sefardim use the mothers name.

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Re: BD"E Jewda, You Will Be Missed
« Reply #202 on: November 08, 2013, 11:06:37 AM »
Can learn new things every day...
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Re: BD"E Jewda, You Will Be Missed
« Reply #203 on: November 08, 2013, 11:36:11 AM »
It doesn't seem fair to the niftar for this to be public knowledge.

It's quite possible that he wrote private posts using a pen name to protect his anonymity.

I'm sure many members here have written things that they wouldn't want others to see.

Let's try protect his identity.
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Re: BD"E Jewda, You Will Be Missed
« Reply #204 on: November 08, 2013, 11:37:07 AM »
It doesn't seem fair to the niftar for this to be public knowledge.

It's quite possible that he wrote private posts using a pen name to protect his anonymity.

I'm sure many members here have written things that they wouldn't want others to see.

Let's try protect his identity.
his brother is the one who stated who he was in the comments on the main page so.....

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Re: BD"E Jewda, You Will Be Missed
« Reply #205 on: November 08, 2013, 11:37:45 AM »
According to the article posted, Yehuda was niftar on Dec 3 2012, and that was Yud Tes Kislev (a special day for chassidim).
Accordingly, his Yar Tzeit is in 2 weeks from today, Friday, Nov 22 (Maybe a good time to finish the mishnayos).
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Re: BD"E Jewda, You Will Be Missed
« Reply #206 on: November 08, 2013, 11:44:16 AM »
his brother is the one who stated who he was in the comments on the main page so.....
Well perhaps even a brother shouldn't have the ability to pull the mask off a ddfer.

I assume he wasn't thinking about this angle but I think members would be a lot more careful about what they post if they knew that one day every one would  be able to read it.

There is a reason we use avators and handles.
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Re: BD"E Jewda, You Will Be Missed
« Reply #207 on: November 08, 2013, 11:57:58 AM »
Well perhaps even a brother shouldn't have the ability to pull the mask off a ddfer.

I assume he wasn't thinking about this angle but I think members would be a lot more careful about what they post if they knew that one day every one would  be able to read it.

There is a reason we use avators and handles.
+1
And that's what Dan's original intention was, not to reveal his handle.
I agree that the name shall be taken down, as his brother may not realiize what he is giving away.



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Re: BD"E Jewda, You Will Be Missed
« Reply #208 on: November 08, 2013, 12:02:54 PM »
+1
And that's what Dan's original intention was, not to reveal his handle.
I agree that the name shall be taken down, as his brother may not realiize what he is giving away.

It's revealed already.
At this point, there's nothing you can do to stop people from knowing.

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Re: BD"E Jewda, You Will Be Missed
« Reply #209 on: November 08, 2013, 12:18:26 PM »
It's revealed already.
At this point, there's nothing you can do to stop people from knowing.
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IMO there's a difference between "everyone knowing" and it being in print on the site.

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Re: BD"E Jewda, You Will Be Missed
« Reply #210 on: November 08, 2013, 12:31:02 PM »
It's revealed already.
At this point, there's nothing you can do to stop people from knowing.
It's revealed to some perhaps. I'm sure there are other friends and acquaintances who haven't found it yet.

I think his sister-in-law's post, while well intentioned, should be removed from the main site.
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Re: BD"E Jewda, You Will Be Missed
« Reply #211 on: November 08, 2013, 12:32:18 PM »
Is there a reason NOT to remove it?

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Re: BD"E Jewda, You Will Be Missed
« Reply #212 on: November 08, 2013, 12:37:05 PM »
It's revealed to some perhaps. I'm sure there are other friends and acquaintances who haven't found it yet.

I think his sister-in-law's post, while well intentioned, should be removed from the main site.
or just modified to delete the last name

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Re: BD"E Jewda, You Will Be Missed
« Reply #213 on: November 08, 2013, 12:40:28 PM »
can s/o explain how it says by JEWDA's profile; Last Active today 12:07pm??
http://forums.dansdeals.com/index.php?action=profile;u=5089

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Re: BD"E Jewda, You Will Be Missed
« Reply #214 on: November 08, 2013, 12:41:10 PM »
can s/o explain how it says by JEWDA's profile; Last Active today 12:07pm??
http://forums.dansdeals.com/index.php?action=profile;u=5089
Maybe someone else has access to his account?
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Re: BD"E Jewda, You Will Be Missed
« Reply #215 on: November 08, 2013, 12:45:24 PM »
Maybe someone else has access to his account?
maybe, but it wasn't touched until today

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Re: BD"E Jewda, You Will Be Missed
« Reply #216 on: November 08, 2013, 12:49:42 PM »
maybe, but it wasn't touched until today
because some family member probably realized who it was and logged in.

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Re: BD"E Jewda, You Will Be Missed
« Reply #217 on: November 08, 2013, 12:53:47 PM »
because some family member probably realized who it was and logged in.

And this is why his name should have been kept a secret. Maybe the mods should delete all his posts? I know, it sounds drastic...
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Re: BD"E Jewda, You Will Be Missed
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Re: BD"E Jewda, You Will Be Missed
« Reply #219 on: November 08, 2013, 12:56:42 PM »
Maybe someone else has access to his account?

His account was active yesterday twenty minutes after the post on the main site. Coincidence?

maybe, but it wasn't touched until today

Wrong