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Re: another get story..
« Reply #60 on: November 07, 2013, 02:16:42 PM »
I know its JS but can we keep ddf out of all this and concentrate on deals......

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Re: another get story..
« Reply #61 on: November 07, 2013, 02:24:15 PM »
I know its JS but can we keep ddf out of all this and concentrate on deals......
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Re: another get story..
« Reply #62 on: November 07, 2013, 02:29:11 PM »
Reading the past few pages I have yet to see any legitimate reason for him to be refusing a get. He is clearly just trying to torture her and become a tamus nafshy im pelishtim in the process. What's a shame is that although he is crazy, to have his grandfather stand behind it all, makes it even more upsetting.
http://daattorah.blogspot.com/2012/07/weiss-family-statement-supporting.html

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Re: another get story..
« Reply #63 on: November 07, 2013, 02:32:52 PM »
http://daattorah.blogspot.com/2012/07/weiss-family-statement-supporting.html

People say that he signed to accept whatever this rabbi G. decides.

A little voice tells me that there is a decent chance that this G. is completely on his side, and thus useless on negotiations.

Remember it was signed several month ago...

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Re: another get story..
« Reply #64 on: November 07, 2013, 03:25:18 PM »
Quote from FanofDan above: "Reading the past few pages I have yet to see any legitimate reason for him to be refusing a get. He is clearly just trying to torture her and become a tamus nafshy im pelishtim in the process. What's a shame is that although he is crazy, to have his grandfather stand behind it all, makes it even more upsetting."
http://daattorah.blogspot.com/2012/07/weiss-family-statement-supporting.html
http://daattorah.blogspot.com/2012/07/weiss-family-statement-supporting.html

Even with all that -- it should all be worked out via the reg system of legal and bais din.
That can all be worked out AFTER the get. It's the same get before or after -- all he's doing is using it as a power tool.  That's not why he has the power and she doesn't.
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Re: another get story..
« Reply #67 on: November 07, 2013, 10:22:47 PM »
@yeki

Those people are sick in the head.
This guy is saying to take a nasty fight between two people and turn it into a campaign against artscroll because they employ some of the relatives.

And the sad thing is that so far 1800 morons agree with him.
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Re: another get story..
« Reply #68 on: November 07, 2013, 10:45:24 PM »

I know its JS but can we keep ddf out of all this and concentrate on deals......
Thats why this is called JS and DDF is not just about deals...

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Re: another get story..
« Reply #69 on: November 07, 2013, 11:54:13 PM »
@yeki

Those people are sick in the head.
This guy is saying to take a nasty fight between two people and turn it into a campaign against artscroll because they employ some of the relatives.

And the sad thing is that so far 1800 morons agree with him.
As many gedolei hadar including reb shmuel kamenestky among others said that both the father and son is in niduy it isn't appropriate that they work for a publication that has jewish values. They have gone against what klal yisroel holds sacred and they don't belong there. Even without the fight I am surprised that he still works there.

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Re: another get story..
« Reply #70 on: November 08, 2013, 12:05:59 AM »
Reading the past few pages I have yet to see any legitimate reason for him to be refusing a get. He is clearly just trying to torture her and become a tamus nafshy im pelishtim in the process. What's a shame is that although he is crazy, to have his grandfather stand behind it all, makes it even more upsetting.
sounds like a kotler quote

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Re: another get story..
« Reply #71 on: November 08, 2013, 12:27:53 AM »
http://daattorah.blogspot.com/2013/11/weiss-dodelson-divorce-r-avraham-meir.html

Noticed that the letter posted today by his uncle was not linked to this moshav laitzim yet, so I figured I would do it.

We are not going to solve this argument here, and we are not going to convince each other as to which side is right.

Let's leave it where it is, and quit while we're behind.


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Re: another get story..
« Reply #72 on: November 08, 2013, 01:50:20 AM »
http://daattorah.blogspot.com/2013/11/weiss-dodelson-divorce-r-avraham-meir.html

Noticed that the letter posted today by his uncle was not linked to this moshav laitzim yet, so I figured I would do it.

We are not going to solve this argument here, and we are not going to convince each other as to which side is right.

Let's leave it where it is, and quit while we're behind.

Well, you just became part of the moshav laitzim.

While that might be true, and I'm definitely not a promoter of airing ones laundry on international level (which has become an ugly trend in the frum world), I can say the following:

I've been quite involved in many (wannabe) divorce cases, and unfortunately his behavior is a perfect copy of some other control freaks, who would give up anything just to keep the I'm-in-charge-feeling.

I did read the full support of rabbi G. letter, but since we are talking many month later, it is possible that this G. is one hard negotiator, and she felt like it's her last resort.

Especially in the USA, without money if the other partner is resisting.... add to that rebbishe, or family of rabonim are related to the other side, well, good luck....

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Re: another get story..
« Reply #73 on: November 08, 2013, 03:47:12 AM »
I agree that many times it becomes a bechina of tamus nafshi, I have heard that from friends of mine who got divorced. There comes a point when someone is involved in a fight and wants to WIN against the other side, even if it is not good for himself in the long run.

I still think that we should not discuss these issues here. What do we gain from lashon hara etc. which here also involves lashon hara against Rabanim? This is not a "blog" where all is muttar, freedom of speech, zchus hatzibur ladaat, chillul Hashem r"l, like some other "Yeshivish" blogs. Adaraba, DDF has become a forum and platform of Kiddush Hashem and Ohr la'amim, a source of Nachas for the RBSh"O! Let's stay clean.  8)

Do you differ and feel there is a tachlis to have such discussions?
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Re: another get story..
« Reply #74 on: November 08, 2013, 04:01:31 AM »
I still think that we should not discuss these issues here. What do we gain from lashon hara etc. which here also involves lashon hara against Rabanim? This is not a "blog" where all is muttar, freedom of speech, zchus hatzibur ladaat, chillul Hashem r"l, like some other "Yeshivish" blogs. Adaraba, DDF has become a forum and platform of Kiddush Hashem and Ohr la'amim, a source of Nachas for the RBSh"O! Let's stay clean.  8)
+1 Well said.