http://daattorah.blogspot.com/2013/11/weiss-dodelson-divorce-r-avraham-meir.html
Noticed that the letter posted today by his uncle was not linked to this moshav laitzim yet, so I figured I would do it.
We are not going to solve this argument here, and we are not going to convince each other as to which side is right.
Let's leave it where it is, and quit while we're behind.
Well, you just became part of the moshav laitzim.
While that might be true, and I'm definitely not a promoter of airing ones laundry on international level (which has become an ugly trend in the frum world), I can say the following:
I've been quite involved in many (wannabe) divorce cases, and unfortunately his behavior is a perfect copy of some other control freaks, who would give up anything just to keep the I'm-in-charge-feeling.
I did read the full support of rabbi G. letter, but since we are talking many month later, it is possible that this G. is one hard negotiator, and she felt like it's her last resort.
Especially in the USA, without money if the other partner is resisting.... add to that rebbishe, or family of rabonim are related to the other side, well, good luck....