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Re: another get story..
« Reply #90 on: November 10, 2013, 01:56:58 PM »
That could be true.

I just can't see any justification for a guy leaving a lady as an aguna.

For the long term you are correct. For the short term, I think all parties would agree that you may want the wife to think things over.

Imagine this scenario: a woman is married to a Kohen. They have a good marriage and several wonderful children. Something happens that puts a strain on the marriage, and she wakes up one morning and decides she wants a Get.

If he gives it to her, he can NEVER remarry her. Don't you think that he should say something like "honey, can we talk this through?" Or "Honey, i'm willing to change whatever it is that you don't like about me, let's go to therapy before making such a harsh decision?"

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Re: another get story..
« Reply #91 on: November 10, 2013, 02:44:30 PM »
For the long term you are correct. For the short term, I think all parties would agree that you may want the wife to think things over.

Imagine this scenario: a woman is married to a Kohen. They have a good marriage and several wonderful children. Something happens that puts a strain on the marriage, and she wakes up one morning and decides she wants a Get.

If he gives it to her, he can NEVER remarry her. Don't you think that he should say something like "honey, can we talk this through?" Or "Honey, i'm willing to change whatever it is that you don't like about me, let's go to therapy before making such a harsh decision?"

No one has a problem with a few month. It's past that, where the problem begins.....

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Re: another get story..
« Reply #93 on: November 12, 2013, 12:17:18 AM »
http://www.vosizneias.com/146088/2013/11/10/staten-island-ny-father-in-law-speaks-out-after-agunahs-public-plea-for-get/

that article/statement from the father-in-law would have some value to it
if it were within the first year of divorce request -- however, it's been 3 YEARS --
and the father-in-law is worried about the public!!??!  Three years to work it out privately!
Time for a shift, it seems... clock is ticking for normalacy to resume....
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Re: another get story..
« Reply #94 on: November 12, 2013, 01:47:48 AM »
A over dramatized perfect victim story from your good friend the media where the guy was perfect right up until she marries him, and then the second they get married he starts to gruel and snarl.

Is the story true, it could be. Is it too perfect? definitely .

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Re: another get story..
« Reply #95 on: November 12, 2013, 02:32:44 AM »
The father has resigned from artscroll

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Re: another get story..
« Reply #96 on: November 12, 2013, 02:58:11 AM »
WOW and I thought American divorces were messy.
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Re: another get story..
« Reply #97 on: November 12, 2013, 02:05:04 PM »
The father has resigned from artscroll
Resigned or forced out?
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Re: another get story..
« Reply #98 on: November 12, 2013, 02:08:36 PM »
Resigned or forced out?
its possible that they support him but can't afford the bad PR

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Re: another get story..
« Reply #99 on: November 12, 2013, 04:09:43 PM »
its possible that they support him but can't afford the bad PR
Most likely. They are probably still paying him, just want their name out of the picture.
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Re: another get story..
« Reply #100 on: November 13, 2013, 11:07:51 PM »
Most likely. They are probably still paying him, just want their name out of the picture.
Artscroll released a statement saying the Weisses (uncle included) will not be drawing salaries until the issue is resolved.
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Re: another get story..
« Reply #101 on: November 13, 2013, 11:09:44 PM »
Someone at Artscroll told me they lost over half a million dollars in sales and sponsors over this... And they are not even at fault here... :-\
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Re: another get story..
« Reply #102 on: November 14, 2013, 08:14:36 AM »
Someone at Artscroll told me they lost over half a million dollars in sales and sponsors over this... And they are not even at fault here... :-\
you really think?
What happened someone called up and said our shul needs 300 new siddurim but because of this we are going to buy sacks koren? ???

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Re: another get story..
« Reply #103 on: November 14, 2013, 08:30:01 AM »
Someone at Artscroll told me they lost over half a million dollars in sales and sponsors over this... And they are not even at fault here... :-\
you really think?
What happened someone called up and said our shul needs 300 new siddurim but because of this we are going to buy sacks koren? ???
That I do think.  Hopefully now the sponsors will come back.

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Re: another get story..
« Reply #104 on: November 14, 2013, 11:07:34 AM »
you really think?
What happened someone called up and said our shul needs 300 new siddurim but because of this we are going to buy sacks koren? ???
Artscroll doesn't only publish siddurim... there were several "boycott Artscroll" FB pages, I read through some of the posts, there were definitely people saying they won't buy any Artscroll products in the near future...
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