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Re: another get story..
« Reply #105 on: November 14, 2013, 11:27:43 AM »
pathetic. world is bored and messed up. let them fight their own battles stop getting random pple involved and ruining other pples lives.

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Re: another get story..
« Reply #106 on: November 14, 2013, 11:33:02 AM »
Unfortunately she vowed to destroy the Yeshiva of Staten Island next, R' Moshe Feinstein's hard work... what a shame!  :'(
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Re: another get story..
« Reply #107 on: November 14, 2013, 12:57:57 PM »
Can we close out this thread to avoid any l"h?

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Re: another get story..
« Reply #108 on: November 14, 2013, 01:59:05 PM »
Can we close out this thread to avoid any l"h?
im afraid its to late for that

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Re: another get story..
« Reply #109 on: November 14, 2013, 02:00:46 PM »
im afraid its to late for that
So any further lh

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Re: another get story..
« Reply #110 on: November 14, 2013, 02:09:48 PM »
in general the statistics speak for themselves

their are currently a numerous amount of either recently or about to be divorced young couples (shona rishona,or 1st-2nd year of marrige) in lkwd.
 of course it has nothing to do with lkwd. lkwd just happens to have the largest amount of newly married frum  couples.
     im sure the numbers are the same in proportion in other frum  communities as well 

   am told that a good portion of those cases are caused by you guessed it "THE INTERNET, FACEBOOK, ETC" 
this is  the cause of many couples having their lives  destroyed .
     
      the internet is a great tool which we all have become dependent on whether for business,shopping, communication etc
but its the most dangerous tool as well
      human relationships  are complicated enough on its own but to have a tool which lets you air  your laundry  and disagreements with others in such an easy "seemingly harmless" "anonymous format is the beginning of the end and the cause of many a failed marriage 
 

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Re: another get story..
« Reply #111 on: November 14, 2013, 02:10:00 PM »
There is No Lashon Hara on Risha'im!  ::) But if really don't want to follow this thread just click "unnotify" on the top or bottom of the page...
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Re: another get story..
« Reply #112 on: November 14, 2013, 02:16:47 PM »
in general the statistics speak for themselves

their are currently a numerous amount of either recently or about to be divorced young couples (shona rishona,or 1st-2nd year of marrige) in lkwd.
 of course it has nothing to do with lkwd. lkwd just happens to have the largest amount of newly married frum  couples.
     im sure the numbers are the same in proportion in other frum  communities as well 

   am told that a good portion of those cases are caused by you guessed it "THE INTERNET, FACEBOOK, ETC" 
this is  the cause of many couples having their lives  destroyed .
     
      the internet is a great tool which we all have become dependent on whether for business,shopping, communication etc
but its the most dangerous tool as well
      human relationships  are complicated enough on its own but to have a tool which lets you air  your laundry  and disagreements with others in such an easy "seemingly harmless" "anonymous format is the beginning of the end and the cause of many a failed marriage 
 
Agreed! But I believe one of the greatest causes for break-ups/divorces is the current day mentality that we need constant change instead of dealing with the decisions we made just a short while earlier... i.e.- Don't like something about your phone/laptop/car just dump it or sell it and get a new one...
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Re: another get story..
« Reply #113 on: November 14, 2013, 02:30:31 PM »
Agreed! But I believe one of the greatest causes for break-ups/divorces is the current day mentality that we need constant change instead of dealing with the decisions we made just a short while earlier... i.e.- Don't like something about your phone/laptop/car just dump it or sell it and get a new one...
in short we call it    disposable generation

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Re: another get story..
« Reply #114 on: November 14, 2013, 04:01:16 PM »
in general the statistics speak for themselves

their are currently a numerous amount of either recently or about to be divorced young couples (shona rishona,or 1st-2nd year of marrige) in lkwd.
 of course it has nothing to do with lkwd. lkwd just happens to have the largest amount of newly married frum  couples.
     im sure the numbers are the same in proportion in other frum  communities as well 

   am told that a good portion of those cases are caused by you guessed it "THE INTERNET, FACEBOOK, ETC" 
this is  the cause of many couples having their lives  destroyed .
     
      the internet is a great tool which we all have become dependent on whether for business,shopping, communication etc
but its the most dangerous tool as well
      human relationships  are complicated enough on its own but to have a tool which lets you air  your laundry  and disagreements with others in such an easy "seemingly harmless" "anonymous format is the beginning of the end and the cause of many a failed marriage 
 

You can't blame Facebook, but you can blame the couples who MISUSE Facebook.

I still can't believe that couples post pictures of their honeymoon outings for all their friends to see. An outing is supposed to be a personal event, not to be shared with friends. If you are going to share it with your friends, why not just bring them along?




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Re: another get story..
« Reply #115 on: November 14, 2013, 04:20:42 PM »
in general the statistics speak for themselves

their are currently a numerous amount of either recently or about to be divorced young couples (shona rishona,or 1st-2nd year of marrige) in lkwd.
 of course it has nothing to do with lkwd. lkwd just happens to have the largest amount of newly married frum  couples.
     im sure the numbers are the same in proportion in other frum  communities as well 

   am told that a good portion of those cases are caused by you guessed it "THE INTERNET, FACEBOOK, ETC" 
this is  the cause of many couples having their lives  destroyed .
     
      the internet is a great tool which we all have become dependent on whether for business,shopping, communication etc
but its the most dangerous tool as well
      human relationships  are complicated enough on its own but to have a tool which lets you air  your laundry  and disagreements with others in such an easy "seemingly harmless" "anonymous format is the beginning of the end and the cause of many a failed marriage 
 
Reminds me of what Dan said at the BP seminar, "we gathered here to discuss the Internet" (to find out the good side of the internet)
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Re: another get story..
« Reply #116 on: November 14, 2013, 09:18:57 PM »
IMO, there are much worse problems for marriages than FB or the internet, but the Frum velt tries to ignore/suppress them.  I.e. the shidduch system.

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Re: another get story..
« Reply #117 on: November 14, 2013, 09:40:01 PM »

I still can't believe that couples post pictures of their honeymoon outings for all their friends to see.
They post it for the same reason that others buy a bright red Ferrari. Who among us doesn't feel the urge to show off the deals we score and the trips we take?

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Re: another get story..
« Reply #119 on: November 15, 2013, 12:18:40 AM »
IMO, there are much worse problems for marriages than FB or the internet, but the Frum velt tries to ignore/suppress them.  I.e. the shidduch system.
I think the shidduch system works as well for participants that look for a spouse with maturity.  Those who think the superficial facts are the important ones, or that pieces of paper can live happily ever after, may get in trouble.