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Re: another get story..
« Reply #300 on: February 09, 2014, 05:27:41 AM »

Then, I have a question:
Even then, obviously they will do the best they can and keep to the terms,
however, if they'd both remarry and then decide that they want a webpage up again,
or something else that they had agreed to keep to. That wouldn't make it as if they hadn't
gotten divorced, correct? It would just mean that after 10 years they broke one of the terms - is that a tenai?

iirc it's a tanai to give the get, not a tanai in the get itself

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Re: another get story..
« Reply #301 on: February 09, 2014, 08:57:44 AM »
not for the Get, but yes there was a six figure payout to the Weiss' lawyer, unattached to the final giving of the Get agreement... the Dodelsons knew they had to pay the lawyers bill before the lawyer was even hired, shortly after Gital left with their son... They didn't argue much about it, but rather they just used it for PR purposes to rile people up, claiming it to be extortion....

Well, they didn't have to use such a cheap lawyer. I would have charged way more than that.

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Re: another get story..
« Reply #302 on: February 09, 2014, 09:59:45 AM »
Well, they didn't have to use such a cheap lawyer. I would have charged way more than that.
The amount paid by the Dodelsons for the lawyers was negotiated at some point prior to the Get. They didn't pay for the entire bill...
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Re: another get story..
« Reply #303 on: February 09, 2014, 10:06:29 AM »
Ftr is was just barely into the low 6 figures.
« Last Edit: February 09, 2014, 10:10:49 AM by MarkS »

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Re: another get story..
« Reply #304 on: February 09, 2014, 10:16:30 AM »
not for the Get, but yes there was a six figure payout to the Weiss' lawyer, unattached to the final giving of the Get agreement... the Dodelsons knew they had to pay the lawyers bill before the lawyer was even hired, shortly after Gital left with their son... They didn't argue much about it, but rather they just used it for PR purposes to rile people up, claiming it to be extortion....
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Re: another get story..
« Reply #305 on: February 09, 2014, 10:17:08 AM »
Deleted, no toeles...

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Re: another get story..
« Reply #306 on: February 09, 2014, 10:19:54 AM »
Life isn't about checking the boxes. Nobody cares.

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Re: another get story..
« Reply #307 on: February 09, 2014, 11:37:54 AM »
This thread?
I had made a post in response to MarkS and ybeeds. But then I realized that there is no longer a toeeles in the Loshon Horah here. So I deleted it. IMO at this point this thread should go.

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Re: another get story..
« Reply #308 on: February 09, 2014, 11:41:36 AM »
I had made a post in response to MarkS and ybeeds. But then I realized that there is no longer a toeeles in the Loshon Horah here. So I deleted it. IMO at this point this thread should go.
you can remove your post on the top right side of the post...
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Re: another get story..
« Reply #309 on: February 09, 2014, 11:49:57 AM »
I had made a post in response to MarkS and ybeeds. But then I realized that there is no longer a toeeles in the Loshon Horah here. So I deleted it. IMO at this point this thread should go.
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Actually I think that this thread is quite valuable in demonstrating to singles and engaged couples
how we can prevent all these issue from arising, even within the mainstream Jewish families.

If all Rabbonim would make this the default document 6 weeks prior to each Kosher marriage,
then not only would we save this publicity, the years of legal back-and-forth, and the pain to the child/ren,
but also the 6 figures of money paid that could have been avoided:
http://www.theprenup.org/index.html

(even low six figures -- that's a lot of money/points/airfare/trips/AF/etc...)

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Re: another get story..
« Reply #310 on: February 09, 2014, 12:00:08 PM »
I signed one, but there are many rabbonim who have halachik issues with this. So that's unrealistic
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Re: another get story..
« Reply #311 on: February 09, 2014, 12:01:58 PM »
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Actually I think that this thread is quite valuable in demonstrating to singles and engaged couples
how we can prevent all these issue from arising, even within the mainstream Jewish families.

If all Rabbonim would make this the default document 6 weeks prior to each Kosher marriage,
then not only would we save this publicity, the years of legal back-and-forth, and the pain to the child/ren,
but also the 6 figures of money paid that could have been avoided:
http://www.theprenup.org/index.html

(even low six figures -- that's a lot of money/points/airfare/trips/AF/etc...)
prenups are against halachah!
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Re: another get story..
« Reply #312 on: February 09, 2014, 12:05:09 PM »
prenups are against halachah!


I signed one, but there are many rabbonim who have halachik issues with this. So that's unrealistic
Why the need to respond to it the way you did. There are rabbonim who support it. There are rabbonim against.
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Re: another get story..
« Reply #313 on: February 09, 2014, 12:10:31 PM »
you can remove your post on the top right side of the post...
not in tapatalk >:(

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Re: another get story..
« Reply #314 on: February 09, 2014, 12:12:13 PM »
Why the need to respond to it the way you did. There are rabbonim who support it. There are rabbonim against.
For what its worth, the "prenup" is ridiculous.  (disregarding the  halachic implications and issues with messing around with gittin and kiddushin)

You actually signed that if your wife decides to leave you, for what ever reason, you are automatically obligated to pay her $150 a day.  Why would you do this?

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Re: another get story..
« Reply #315 on: February 09, 2014, 12:12:34 PM »
not in tapatalk >:(
tap, edit, remove?

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Re: another get story..
« Reply #316 on: February 09, 2014, 12:13:16 PM »
prenups are against halachah!
Wow that's a real blank statement which isn't true. I personally didn't sign one but there are plenty of rabbonim who hold of it.


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Re: another get story..
« Reply #317 on: February 09, 2014, 12:13:26 PM »
@ybeeds trust me I've got a lot to say, if you insist I can try to find a heter :)

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Re: another get story..
« Reply #318 on: February 09, 2014, 12:14:48 PM »

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Re: another get story..
« Reply #319 on: February 09, 2014, 12:16:50 PM »