Hmm.. what about when it becomes a he says she says?
He says im willing to give a get ASAP if you agree to ABC and she says im willing to accept the get ASAP only if ABC dont apply and we agree to DEF? Who pays who the money?
the same he says/she says applies in the legal world, as well. That's why the Beth Din of America documents
include the 3rd parties that the couple will go to if there is a problem.
I don't like that this gives the BDA the powers of 'binding arbitration', but it looks like any 3rd party can be appointed in their place in the doc.
http://www.theprenup.org/pdf/Prenup_Standard.pdf PS - This whole thing is horrible to look at/read, however, considering what we all witnessed for the past year
in the NY Post, this looks like it will prevent that from happening.
Or, perhaps even more common, it can prevent the husband from thinking to declare to the wife,
"I don't care..., I'll never give you a get."
That can be so terrifying for any lady to hear, she may feel imprisoned/stuck for life. Maybe this doc will give them an even, balanced approach.