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Re: "Ex-Hasidic Woman Marks Five Years Since She Shaved Her Head"
« Reply #320 on: November 16, 2013, 09:31:24 PM »
Lol
Is it really so difficult to put on a sheitel properly?

And if that's the real issue so get a short haircut so there's not even a chance of stray hairs coming out of a sheitel, why shaven?

His Rav may be correct in that it was a factor in creating the takanah but there are probably unrelated reasons as well. 

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Re: "Ex-Hasidic Woman Marks Five Years Since She Shaved Her Head"
« Reply #321 on: November 16, 2013, 09:34:20 PM »

Is it really so difficult to put on a sheitel properly?


Good question, no answer.
But I guess I can ask similar questions on plenty other minhagim or grdorim. That's what it is and I have no problem with it as long as its not forced.

And if that's the real issue so get a short haircut so there's not even a chance of stray hairs coming out of a sheitel, why shaven?
They do get boys haircut (at least my wife). Don't know who misinformed you all.
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Re: "Ex-Hasidic Woman Marks Five Years Since She Shaved Her Head"
« Reply #322 on: November 16, 2013, 09:35:42 PM »
but there are probably unrelated reasons as well.
Says who?
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Re: "Ex-Hasidic Woman Marks Five Years Since She Shaved Her Head"
« Reply #323 on: November 16, 2013, 09:36:57 PM »
Says who?

Logic.  If Tznius was the sole reason they wouldn't be getting anything more than a boy's haircut. 

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Re: "Ex-Hasidic Woman Marks Five Years Since She Shaved Her Head"
« Reply #324 on: November 16, 2013, 09:38:42 PM »
Logic.  If Tznius was the sole reason they wouldn't be getting anything more than a boy's haircut.
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Re: "Ex-Hasidic Woman Marks Five Years Since She Shaved Her Head"
« Reply #325 on: November 16, 2013, 09:40:44 PM »
No denial on the Shapiro stuff. Any more of his spew you want to share here?
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Re: "Ex-Hasidic Woman Marks Five Years Since She Shaved Her Head"
« Reply #326 on: November 16, 2013, 09:43:25 PM »
No denial on the Shapiro stuff. Any more of his spew you want to share here?

Care to enlighten us?

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Re: "Ex-Hasidic Woman Marks Five Years Since She Shaved Her Head"
« Reply #327 on: November 16, 2013, 09:44:40 PM »
Care to enlighten us?
That was my question to you
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Re: "Ex-Hasidic Woman Marks Five Years Since She Shaved Her Head"
« Reply #328 on: November 16, 2013, 09:45:52 PM »
That was my question to you

No denial on the Shapiro stuff. Any more of his spew you want to share here?

Who is Shapiro and what does he say?

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Re: "Ex-Hasidic Woman Marks Five Years Since She Shaved Her Head"
« Reply #329 on: November 16, 2013, 09:49:29 PM »
They do get boys haircut (at least my wife). Don't know who misinformed you all.
I was told (first hand) that it is a triple zero shave, so definitely some people are doing that.
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Re: "Ex-Hasidic Woman Marks Five Years Since She Shaved Her Head"
« Reply #330 on: November 16, 2013, 09:50:21 PM »
Than I can't comment on that.
I can only comment on what I know.
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Re: "Ex-Hasidic Woman Marks Five Years Since She Shaved Her Head"
« Reply #331 on: November 16, 2013, 09:51:07 PM »
Who is Shapiro and what does he say?
He wrote a book saying that the 13 ikarei emunah are not so pashut. He portends to be orthodox. Leads many people astray. If you look up most (all?) of his mareh mekomos you can see that he either has trouble reading hebrew or purposefully mistranslates
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Re: "Ex-Hasidic Woman Marks Five Years Since She Shaved Her Head"
« Reply #332 on: November 16, 2013, 09:52:05 PM »
He wrote a book saying that the 13 ikarei emunah are not so pashut. He portends to be orthodox. Leads many people astray. If you look up most (all?) of his mareh mekomos you can see that he either has trouble reading hebrew or purposefully mistranslates
Never heard of him but sounds like what missionaries do with tanach.
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Re: "Ex-Hasidic Woman Marks Five Years Since She Shaved Her Head"
« Reply #333 on: November 16, 2013, 09:52:47 PM »
Never heard of him but sounds like what missionaries do with tanach.
But unfortunately he's one of us and modern orthodox shuls bring him in to speak which gives him credence.
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Re: &quot;Ex-Hasidic Woman Marks Five Years Since She Shaved Her Head&quot;
« Reply #334 on: November 16, 2013, 10:09:29 PM »
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Re: "Ex-Hasidic Woman Marks Five Years Since She Shaved Her Head"
« Reply #335 on: November 16, 2013, 10:47:26 PM »
How much is bail? 
Maybe we'll bail you out.
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Re: "Ex-Hasidic Woman Marks Five Years Since She Shaved Her Head"
« Reply #336 on: November 16, 2013, 10:48:54 PM »
How much is bail? 
Maybe we'll bail you out.
I don't think you can afford it. Your wife's hair in a bag
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Re: "Ex-Hasidic Woman Marks Five Years Since She Shaved Her Head"
« Reply #337 on: November 16, 2013, 10:57:47 PM »
He would do it for me.
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Re: "Ex-Hasidic Woman Marks Five Years Since She Shaved Her Head"
« Reply #338 on: November 16, 2013, 11:02:57 PM »
I don't think you can afford it. Your wife's hair in a bag
She's been complaining that it's getting so long that it hurts under the sheitel.
Maybe I'll suggest shaving it off next time.
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Re: "Ex-Hasidic Woman Marks Five Years Since She Shaved Her Head"
« Reply #339 on: November 16, 2013, 11:04:50 PM »
When my BIL got married last year we asked his kallah if she was ready for the shave the next morning that her new MIL would perform.

It's actually the sound the shaver makes shhhhhvvvvvvvvviger.

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