Author Topic: "Ex-Hasidic Woman Marks Five Years Since She Shaved Her Head"  (Read 45386 times)

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Re: Re: Interesting Articles...
« Reply #45 on: November 14, 2013, 08:16:57 PM »
Hey! Let's leave your dogs out of this :))
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« Reply #46 on: November 14, 2013, 08:35:16 PM »
1. Just because you don't understand it doesn't mean it's a chok.

2. To someone non-religious, following a command from hashem looks just as cult-like as chassidim following a rebbe does to you.

Ok. I am a guy and my hair is starting to go. I can say that this is quite upsetting. For a woman it must be nothing short of torture.

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« Reply #47 on: November 14, 2013, 08:42:01 PM »
@meshug, I always understood the maalah of kimchi's was that the walls of her home did not see EVEN her hair, key word even. This means that wearing a bathing cap in the pool with a bathing suit is totally ridicules.

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« Reply #48 on: November 14, 2013, 08:43:39 PM »
I don't understand what you say
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« Reply #49 on: November 14, 2013, 08:45:15 PM »
Edited a little....on road

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« Reply #50 on: November 14, 2013, 08:46:28 PM »
@meshug, I always understood the maalah of kimchi's was that the walls of her home did not see EVEN her hair, key word even. This means that wearing a bathing cap in the pool with a bathing suit is totally ridicules.

Wearing a bathing cap is for Tznius?
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« Reply #51 on: November 14, 2013, 08:47:34 PM »
Clearly she had hair to cover - unlike the women who are forced to shave it off.
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Re: Re: Interesting Articles...
« Reply #52 on: November 14, 2013, 08:58:45 PM »
@yehuda
I don't advocate forcing.
The story in the forward is indeed crazy.

I'm just trying to give you an idea how others see this issue with a different perspective.

Some women see no point in keeping their hair if it can't be uncovered anyway.
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Re: Re: Interesting Articles...
« Reply #53 on: November 14, 2013, 09:01:00 PM »
Some women see no point in keeping their hair if it can't be uncovered anyway.
That I have a hard time believing.
They might see no point if they are real chasidim, but that there's no point because only your husband can see it?
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Re: Re: Interesting Articles...
« Reply #54 on: November 14, 2013, 09:03:43 PM »
That I have a hard time believing.
They might see no point if they are real chasidim, but that there's no point because only your husband can see it?
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« Reply #55 on: November 14, 2013, 09:04:52 PM »
That I have a hard time believing.
They might see no point if they are real chasidim, but that there's no point because only your husband can see it?
Not everyone lets their husband see it...
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Re: Re: Interesting Articles...
« Reply #56 on: November 14, 2013, 09:06:25 PM »
Not everyone lets their husband see it...
which brings us to my point re the bathing cap....

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Re: Re: Interesting Articles...
« Reply #57 on: November 14, 2013, 09:07:49 PM »
Not everyone lets their husband see it...
Now this one is beyond me.
Save your time, I don't answer PM. Post it in the forum and a dedicated DDF'er will get back to you as soon as possible.

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Re: Re: Interesting Articles...
« Reply #58 on: November 14, 2013, 09:07:59 PM »
Wearing a bathing cap is for Tznius?
For many married woman yes, ask them. Most wouldn't dream of uncovering their hair even if they are fine with wearing a bathing suit. Ridiculous IMHO

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Re: Re: Interesting Articles...
« Reply #59 on: November 14, 2013, 09:08:40 PM »
Now this one is beyond me.
1+ But its true