Srap- I hope you figure it out and get your data back! The irony in you trying to keep it safe from big brother is that you might have lost it!
I agree with you about the whole no-such-thing-as-privacy-anymore sentiment, but the truth is its a lost cause. I just grin and embrace it as the new reality. If you use Google to search, shop online, have email, use a credit card, heck even a regular feature phone at all, big brother has been snooping on you. Saying you don't want to use a Smartphone because you want to keep your privacy is like closing the door to your house after the walls have already been taken down by a wrecking ball. They can still see everything if they want. Its a losing fight.
In other news, my wife has really enjoyed her little pink Centro for the last couple of months since I picked it up for her (the reason I started this thread). But now that she's got the smartphone bug, she wants to know what else she can do. Just activated her first Android handset today (*sniff* they grow up so fast!).