How will they learn their lesson if they are only victims and do not share blame for the mess they got themselves into? That they should have been more responsible does not absolve the scammers, but that they were victims of a scam does not absolve them from digging deep into how they got there. Not only the irresponsibility of what they did, but also the underlying attitudes that led them to fall in. Of course, the scammer who took advantage of them is millions of times worse.
There is a time and a place for everything.
You think the victims haven't heard this already many times over, or even come to this realization themselves? I'm sure they all did. Everyone here complaining that they want a first hand story. Some guy came out and posted. You think he/she came here to post to get bashed by a bunch of more people.
Maybe now you know why people aren't coming out with their story.