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Re: PSA: Don't swipe recklessly for others
« Reply #2360 on: February 24, 2019, 01:05:39 PM »
I deal with wealthy people on a regular basis (sadly, I am not one of them  :-[)and they rarely use credit cards. Their preferred payment method is either old-fashioned check, cash or ACH.

What age range?

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Re: PSA: Don't swipe recklessly for others
« Reply #2361 on: February 24, 2019, 01:22:53 PM »
Makes much more sense. So the people left with the debt were the victims of the farmers who made a pittance while the farmers destroyed them and made 120k off them.
If this is indeed true it is an outrage and the victims should sue in Beis Din and/or a court of law to transfer the liability to the farmers.

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Re: PSA: Don't swipe recklessly for others
« Reply #2362 on: February 24, 2019, 01:29:55 PM »
If this is indeed true it is an outrage and the victims should sue in Beis Din and/or a court of law to transfer the liability to the farmers.
That's not so simple.
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Re: PSA: Don't swipe recklessly for others
« Reply #2363 on: February 24, 2019, 01:31:38 PM »
maybe some good is coming out of this
if some people are divorcing their spouse because of money.
maybe its better that it happened this way instead of being married to a gold digger
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Re: PSA: Don't swipe recklessly for others
« Reply #2364 on: February 24, 2019, 01:34:24 PM »
maybe some good is coming out of this
if some people are divorcing their spouse because of money.
maybe its better that it happened this way instead of being married to a gold digger
Oy, that's a terrible thing to say.
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Re: PSA: Don't swipe recklessly for others
« Reply #2365 on: February 24, 2019, 01:36:59 PM »
That's not so simple.
It should still be explored

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Re: PSA: Don't swipe recklessly for others
« Reply #2366 on: February 24, 2019, 01:37:34 PM »
Oy, that's a terrible thing to say.

better to be married to someone who just wants your money ?
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Re: PSA: Don't swipe recklessly for others
« Reply #2367 on: February 24, 2019, 01:37:54 PM »
better to be married to someone who just wants your money ?
Are you insane or just daft?
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Re: PSA: Don't swipe recklessly for others
« Reply #2368 on: February 24, 2019, 01:38:57 PM »
maybe some good is coming out of this
if some people are divorcing their spouse because of money.
maybe its better that it happened this way instead of being married to a gold digger
no offense but that is a horrible thing to say
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Re: PSA: Don't swipe recklessly for others
« Reply #2369 on: February 24, 2019, 01:40:00 PM »
maybe some good is coming out of this
if some people are divorcing their spouse because of money.
maybe its better that it happened this way instead of being married to a gold digger
Itís not the money as much as the breach of trust, itís very hard for a spouse to hear that their partner was partaking in risky behavior that they were unaware of and that has left them in hundreds of thousands of dollars of debt. At a minimum it would take a lot of work to rebuild the trust necessary for a healthy marriage based on mutual respect and trust.

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Re: PSA: Don't swipe recklessly for others
« Reply #2370 on: February 24, 2019, 01:40:05 PM »
Are you insane or just daft?
i vote both
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Re: PSA: Don't swipe recklessly for others
« Reply #2371 on: February 24, 2019, 01:40:59 PM »
Was this the S in UPS method?

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Re: PSA: Don't swipe recklessly for others
« Reply #2372 on: February 24, 2019, 01:41:26 PM »
I've been waiting over 5 years with bated breath for someone to say that!
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Re: PSA: Don't swipe recklessly for others
« Reply #2374 on: February 24, 2019, 01:45:51 PM »
Itís not the money as much as the breach of trust, itís very hard for a spouse to hear that their partner was partaking in risky behavior that they were unaware of and that has left them in hundreds of thousands of dollars of debt. At a minimum it would take a lot of work to rebuild the trust necessary for a healthy marriage based on mutual respect and trust.

that makes sense
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Re: PSA: Don't swipe recklessly for others
« Reply #2375 on: February 24, 2019, 01:46:12 PM »
Show Some Respect for Me, I am The Chief Rabbi of New York :)

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PSA: Don't swipe recklessly for others
« Reply #2376 on: February 24, 2019, 02:02:25 PM »
Under 100KAbout 3 years

BTW, they received 1099s...

Everyone that Settleís with the bank gets a 1099 for the money that they did not pay ?
What about if someone Settles with the debt collector, will they also get a 1099 for the money that did not pay ?
« Last Edit: February 24, 2019, 02:37:44 PM by bznt »

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Re: PSA: Don't swipe recklessly for others
« Reply #2377 on: February 24, 2019, 02:03:32 PM »
IME yes but if you owe more than you have assets you don't pay taxes on it - there is a form you fill out

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Re: PSA: Don't swipe recklessly for others
« Reply #2378 on: February 24, 2019, 02:06:25 PM »
Everyone that Seattleís with the bank gets a 1099 for the money that they did not pay ?
What about if someone Seattleís with the debt collector, will they also get a 1099 for the money that did not pay ?
Yes, but there is a minimum, can't remember how much

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PSA: Don't swipe recklessly for others
« Reply #2379 on: February 24, 2019, 02:08:59 PM »
IME yes but if you owe more than you have assets you don't pay taxes on it - there is a form you fill out
Then it might be a better idea to file for bankruptcy vs Settle.
« Last Edit: February 24, 2019, 02:35:43 PM by bznt »