Now if you are adding something worthwhile then by all means yes.
Because I feel that this is a very serious issue
If this is a very serious issue for you I sure wish I lived your life. Most people worry about financial problems, kids, emotions, school, work, health, insurance etc. But if this is something very serious in your life I guess it means you are good on all those fronts.
One of the forumfolk PMed me and said "Please stop posting on old posts that are dead if you aren't adding something new to the discussion".Because I feel that this is a very serious issue, I decided that maybe the rest of the forumfolk can chime in with their opinions on the matter.Let it rip, people!
Why did you start a new thread? I'm sure you could have found an old one to post your question in.