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Re: Bnei Torah
« Reply #20 on: January 21, 2014, 01:59:54 AM »
how do you know?
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Re: Bnei Torah
« Reply #21 on: January 21, 2014, 02:14:46 AM »
Super Speed is like everyone's mother. They know everything
:) IP address is the same as another account. JK


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Re: Bnei Torah
« Reply #22 on: January 21, 2014, 03:12:07 AM »
:) IP address is the same as another account. JK
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Re: Bnei Torah
« Reply #23 on: January 21, 2014, 08:01:52 AM »
I am a recent DDer and have very mixed feelings about participating in some of the deals being posted.

I was doing homework with my son last week and saw the following in תפארת ישראל - בועז מסכת בבא קמא פרק ד
I am honestly very interested in thoughts from longer term participants who consider themselves shomer Torah uMitzvos.
מיהו לגנוב מעכו"ם או להטעותו, לרמב"ם [פ"ז מגניבה] אסור מדאורייתא, ולרש"י [סנהדרין נ"ז א'] אסור מדרבנן, ואפילו טעות שטעה עכו"ם מעצמו, או כשנמצא אבידתו, אסור לעכבן. וכן כתב באר הגולה [ח"מ שמ"ח סק"ה], וז"ל ואני כותב זה לדורות, שראיתי רבים העשירו א"ע מטעות עכו"ם, ולא הצלחו וירדו מנכסיהם ולא הניחו אחריהם ברכה, ורבים אשר קדשו ה' והחזירו טעות עכו"ם בדבר חשוב, גדלו והצליחו והעשירו, והניחו יתרם לעולליהם, וכ"כ בספר חסידים [תתרע"ד] ואם זה בעכו"ם, שהיה ממונינו וחיינו בעיניהם הפקר כמ"ש חז"ל, בניך עולפו וגו' כתוא מכמר [ב"ק קי"ז א'], ק"ו מעתה שכמה מהחיוב עלינו לאלו אחינו מהאומות המכירין ה' אחד ומכבדין תורתו, ומאמינים בה שהיא אלהים, וקורין אותה [הייליגע שריפט], ומשמרין כפי המחוייב עליהן מדין תורתינו דהיינו הז' מצות, וגם אינן מניחין לעקם לנו אפילו שערה קטנה אפילו מגדול שבגדולים שלהן, ופשתה כהה שבנו לא יכבוה, ולא זו בלבד אלא שעושין, ג"כ ג"ח רבות עם עניי' שלנו, דכמה וכמה מתפרנסים רק מנדבת ידם, וא"כ איך נוכל להיות כפויי טובה ח"ו, ולא נאמר כיוסף שאמר ואיך אעשה הרעה הגדולה וחטאתי לאלהים]:
IS it just me or does the quote from Sefer Hachassidim look like an addition of the censor?

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Re: Bnei Torah
« Reply #24 on: January 21, 2014, 08:47:33 AM »
I think it's time got input from cv
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Re: Bnei Torah
« Reply #25 on: January 21, 2014, 09:09:10 AM »
Move this thread to the just shmooze board cause that's where this really belongs....
bmchilas kevodcha, Just Shmooze is described as "Visit this board to kick back and talk about anything worthless. "  I do not believe what I am raising is "worthless."

Also not every deal is a mistake on their part. Figuring out the system to get the most out of your buck is not taking advantage of a mistake.
What about the actual mistakes like the recent Delta deal?  Those are what DD is famous for.  Is it worthwhile for a group of Mechashvei Torah and Shomrei Mitzvos to "take advantage" of these mistakes in such a highly visible way?

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Re: Bnei Torah
« Reply #26 on: January 21, 2014, 12:30:15 PM »
bmchilas kevodcha, Just Shmooze is described as "Visit this board to kick back and talk about anything worthless. "  I do not believe what I am raising is "worthless."
What about the actual mistakes like the recent Delta deal?  Those are what DD is famous for.  Is it worthwhile for a group of Mechashvei Torah and Shomrei Mitzvos to "take advantage" of these mistakes in such a highly visible way?

Did it ever cross your mind that it was all a huge marketing gimmick? They actually want you to take 'advantage' of the 'glitch'! If that even makes the slightest bit of sense (and it does to me) then you really never do know when and what is an ACTUAL mistake...

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Re: Bnei Torah
« Reply #27 on: January 21, 2014, 12:39:50 PM »
Did it ever cross your mind that it was all a huge marketing gimmick? They actually want you to take 'advantage' of the 'glitch'! If that even makes the slightest bit of sense (and it does to me) then you really never do know when and what is an ACTUAL mistake...
are you out of your mind marketing gimmik that will piss off all their regular customers by loading business class with families with babies

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Re: Bnei Torah
« Reply #28 on: January 21, 2014, 12:46:41 PM »
bmchilas kevodcha, Just Shmooze is described as "Visit this board to kick back and talk about anything worthless. "  I do not believe what I am raising is "worthless."
What about the actual mistakes like the recent Delta deal?  Those are what DD is famous for.  Is it worthwhile for a group of Mechashvei Torah and Shomrei Mitzvos to "take advantage" of these mistakes in such a highly visible way?
Bemichilas Kvodcha - get off the internet - it is asur to use the internet. BNEI TORAH shouldn't be using the internet.

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Re: Bnei Torah
« Reply #29 on: January 21, 2014, 12:56:34 PM »
IS it just me or does the quote from Sefer Hachassidim look like an addition of the censor?
I just looked up the Sefer Hachasidim on Hebrew Books (Here Page 214) and that Siman looks quite different...

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Re: Bnei Torah
« Reply #30 on: January 21, 2014, 01:01:21 PM »
I have personally found that some deals really are quite questionable על פי הלכה but people here are very sensitive and get insulted if you are even מרמז to such a thing so I would say you were probably מקיים מצות תוכחה and can just let everyone continue to go about their business.

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Re: Bnei Torah
« Reply #31 on: January 21, 2014, 01:45:43 PM »
Bemichilas Kvodcha - get off the internet - it is asur to use the internet. BNEI TORAH shouldn't be using the internet.
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Re: Bnei Torah
« Reply #32 on: January 21, 2014, 01:49:05 PM »
In all fairness the OP seems to be trying to have a nice respectful conversation.  No reason not to listen and give your respectful thoughts back.
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Re: Bnei Torah
« Reply #33 on: January 21, 2014, 01:56:38 PM »

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Re: Bnei Torah
« Reply #34 on: January 21, 2014, 02:08:16 PM »
In all fairness the OP seems to be trying to have a nice respectful conversation.  No reason not to listen and give your respectful thoughts back.
Why is the topic title "Bnei Torah"?

Seems more like a mussar shmuz than a conversation.

It seems like this guy signed up here just to give mussar.

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Re: Bnei Torah
« Reply #35 on: January 21, 2014, 03:19:45 PM »
I know that "they are doing it too" isn't really an excuse... but who's to say that corporations aren't duping and stealing from the consumers? Jacking prices up to insane highs, hiding 22 catches in miniscule fine print.... it's a dog eat dog world
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Re: Bnei Torah
« Reply #36 on: January 21, 2014, 03:28:15 PM »
I know that "they are doing it too" isn't really an excuse... but who's to say that corporations aren't duping and stealing from the consumers? Jacking prices up to insane highs, hiding 22 catches in miniscule fine print.... it's a dog eat dog world
So why give it as an excuse?
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Re: Bnei Torah
« Reply #37 on: January 21, 2014, 03:39:07 PM »
So why give it as an excuse?

Because then I'm just wrong and not evil for taking advantage of corporations ;)

Don't the rules change of your opponent isn't playing fair?
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Re: Bnei Torah
« Reply #38 on: January 21, 2014, 03:56:21 PM »
Because then I'm just wrong and not evil for taking advantage of corporations ;)

Don't the rules change of your opponent isn't playing fair?

There is a din of im navar titabar. But that doesn't apply to stealing
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Re: Bnei Torah
« Reply #39 on: January 21, 2014, 04:03:04 PM »
I have personally found that some deals really are quite questionable על פי הלכה but people here are very sensitive and get insulted if you are even מרמז to such a thing so I would say you were probably מקיים מצות תוכחה and can just let everyone continue to go about their business.
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