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Re: Jeff Jacoby's Son Is Missing
« Reply #41 on: January 23, 2014, 07:15:29 AM »
Very well written
It is human nature to want to know what happened. Something the article missed.
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Re: Jeff Jacoby's Son Is Missing
« Reply #42 on: January 23, 2014, 08:31:09 AM »
It is human nature to want to know what happened. Something the article missed.
no offense , but you completely missed the point of the article. The point was that even though human nature is to want to know what happened, it's still none of our business and  people should realize that.
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Re: Jeff Jacoby's Son Is Missing
« Reply #43 on: January 23, 2014, 10:12:18 AM »
no offense , but you completely missed the point of the article. The point was that even though human nature is to want to know what happened, it's still none of our business and  people should realize that.
I think he understood that and still wants to know
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Re: Jeff Jacoby's Son Is Missing
« Reply #44 on: January 23, 2014, 10:13:22 AM »
no offense , but you completely missed the point of the article. The point was that even though human nature is to want to know what happened, it's still none of our business and  people should realize that.
When he adds this part I don't think he is talking about human nature.

"In fact, being satisfied with knowing he is ok versus expressing a desire to find out exactly what happened reveals whether this issue was really about Caleb or more about us, and our voyeuristic spectatorship all along. If we genuinely care about someone who was missing, all we need to know is they are now safe and healthy. The craving for salacious details and the appetite to know the entire story emanates from a terribly unhealthy sense of nosiness, inquisitiveness and our insatiable need to be in the know.
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Re: Jeff Jacoby's Son Is Missing
« Reply #45 on: January 23, 2014, 10:15:43 AM »
When he adds this part I don't think he is talking about human nature.

"In fact, being satisfied with knowing he is ok versus expressing a desire to find out exactly what happened reveals whether this issue was really about Caleb or more about us, and our voyeuristic spectatorship all along. If we genuinely care about someone who was missing, all we need to know is they are now safe and healthy. The craving for salacious details and the appetite to know the entire story emanates from a terribly unhealthy sense of nosiness, inquisitiveness and our insatiable need to be in the know.
So basically they're asking that no one ever visit their site
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Re: Jeff Jacoby's Son Is Missing
« Reply #46 on: January 23, 2014, 10:17:18 AM »
So basically they're asking that no one ever visit their site
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Re: Jeff Jacoby's Son Is Missing
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Re: Jeff Jacoby's Son Is Missing
« Reply #48 on: January 23, 2014, 12:40:36 PM »
So basically they're asking that no one ever visit their site
good point!  I think the article was originally written for the rabbi's personal blog and they took it from there.

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Re: Jeff Jacoby's Son Is Missing
« Reply #49 on: January 23, 2014, 02:00:45 PM »
@CV

Did I miss the discussion in his article about ppl wanting to know what happened? I don't see it at all. Was it edited?

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Re: Jeff Jacoby's Son Is Missing
« Reply #50 on: January 23, 2014, 07:17:14 PM »
@CV

Did I miss the discussion in his article about ppl wanting to know what happened? I don't see it at all. Was it edited?
You did not miss anything. I take it as before you even ask it is none of your business.
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Re: Jeff Jacoby's Son Is Missing
« Reply #51 on: January 23, 2014, 08:51:45 PM »
@CV

Did I miss the discussion in his article about ppl wanting to know what happened? I don't see it at all. Was it edited?
cv was quoting me.  He was referring to the post from a few weeks ago with a link to matzav.

See this article http://forward.com/articles/191476/why-caleb-jacobys-disappearance-is-our-business/

I wasn't impressed with her argument.

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Re: Jeff Jacoby's Son Is Missing
« Reply #52 on: January 23, 2014, 09:10:05 PM »
cv was quoting me.  He was referring to the post from a few weeks ago with a link to matzav.

See this article http://forward.com/articles/191476/why-caleb-jacobys-disappearance-is-our-business/

I wasn't impressed with her argument.
Wow! Her article is narcissistic! It absolutely enrages me.

This commenter said it best:

When a minor child leaves home and voluntarily travels interstate and then is returned after a police manhunt, that child is not just returned to the parents and 'everything is fine.' In cases such as these the police, schools, etc become mandated reporters and Child Protective Services (under whatever name the Massachusetts agency uses) openes a case. The child will generally be returned to the parents during the investigation if it is found there is 'no imminent danger' in the parental home. This child will be monitored for a period of time. Home studies will be done, the child will generally be sent for medical and psychological checkups.
The parents are generally not free to discuss what is an ongoing CPS case with the public or the media.

You may want to know, but you have no right to know. We as a public find out what went on and is going on through our agents, the professional social service workers employed by the government. To put it bluntly, Adena Cohen-Bearak-MYOB. If and only if we didn't have a CPS system in place would a public appeal for information as you make be appropriate. If and only if there are criminal charges brought against adults connected with this case do you as an individual have a right to know.



 
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