To be fair, his first reaction/word was “devastating” and you completely ignored that part. There are likely gentler ways to make your point.
I took the "...devastating..." as part of the next line.
It sort of sounded like "Its devastating that your father died today, we were planning on golfing together on Sunday, I wonder who we could get to join our foursome"
I actually saw his post on Motzoei Shabbos, and decided not to post....
Then everyone was attacking his spelling (He's obviously a non native english speaker)... and I decided to post what bothered me.