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Members interested in starting a community in Hawaii:

1. Dan
2. @Yehuda - the guy who's never been there and also would have to go every Thursday-Sunday to LAX.
3. Mgoldhammer18-Would live by the Grand Hyatt, Kauai

If anyone wants to track MendyP's awesome adventure, you can do so here

Author Topic: Making A Community In Hawaii  (Read 70233 times)

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Re: Making A Community In Hawaii
« Reply #300 on: September 13, 2014, 08:47:48 PM »

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Re: Making A Community In Hawaii
« Reply #301 on: February 18, 2015, 11:21:52 AM »
Just realized: How can this happen if my Rabbi said I can't go to Hawaii for Shabbos? Maybe I'll fly every Thursday afternoon to LAX?

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Re: Making A Community In Hawaii
« Reply #302 on: February 18, 2015, 11:22:32 AM »
Just realized: How can this happen if my Rabbi said I can't go to Hawaii for Shabbos? Maybe I'll fly every Thursday afternoon to LAX?
You'll just have to find a local HI Rabbi ;)
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Re: Making A Community In Hawaii
« Reply #303 on: February 18, 2015, 11:23:02 AM »
Just realized: How can this happen if my Rabbi said I can't go to Hawaii for Shabbos? Maybe I'll fly every Thursday afternoon to LAX?
Keep 2 days Shabbos? 8)

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Re: Making A Community In Hawaii
« Reply #304 on: February 18, 2015, 11:24:01 AM »
You'll just have to find a local HI Rabbi ;)
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Keep 2 days Shabbos? 8)
I have a feeling that part of the "don't go to Hawaii for Shabbos" included "don't spend 2 day Shabbos there" either, but I still should clarify that.

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Re: Making A Community In Hawaii
« Reply #305 on: February 18, 2015, 11:24:50 AM »
You'll just have to find a local HI Rabbi ;)
It there a list somewhere of Rabbi's that state their positions of certain things? It would be a lot easier to pick one.
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Re: Making A Community In Hawaii
« Reply #306 on: February 18, 2015, 11:26:18 AM »
It there a list somewhere of Rabbi's that state their positions of certain things? It would be a lot easier to pick one.
I thought it goes by what standards WE hold them to?
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Re: Making A Community In Hawaii
« Reply #307 on: February 18, 2015, 11:26:57 AM »

I have a feeling that part of the "don't go to Hawaii for Shabbos" included "don't spend 2 day Shabbos there" either, but I still should clarify that.
You'll run into other problems (will you miss 2 days of Teffilin?).

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Re: Making A Community In Hawaii
« Reply #308 on: February 18, 2015, 11:27:30 AM »
It there a list somewhere of Rabbi's that state their positions of certain things? It would be a lot easier to pick one.
It's posted in the closed forums ;)

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Re: Making A Community In Hawaii
« Reply #309 on: February 18, 2015, 11:27:56 AM »
You'll run into other problems (will you miss 2 days of Teffilin?).
You put tefilin on on Friday even if it's a quasi shabbos.

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Re: Making A Community In Hawaii
« Reply #310 on: February 18, 2015, 11:28:56 AM »
I thought it goes by what standards WE hold them to?
I would hold them to higher standard but since I am a zero it is not hard to be higher.
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Re: Making A Community In Hawaii
« Reply #311 on: February 18, 2015, 11:31:08 AM »
You put tefilin on on Friday even if it's a quasi shabbos.
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holding 2 days shabbos wouldnt knock out the mitzva deoraysa of needing to put on tfillin

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Moving to Hawaii!
« Reply #312 on: February 22, 2015, 11:52:34 PM »
3 years ago my wife and I went to Hawaii (Big Island and Oahu) on our honeymoon and fell in love with it. In 4 years of marriage we have been fortunate to have visited France, Italy, Hawaii, Israel, Brazil, and New Zealand. Hawaii (and Israel - which is different) was the only one where my wife said "How do we move here?"... (Disclaimer: New Zealand is INCREDIBLE, but moving to the South Island of NZ did not seem realistic) Since then we always discussed that we would retire in Hawaii one day in the future (run a Kosher B&B in Kona?). In any case, around 1-1/2 years ago, an opportunity came up at work for me to transfer to the Honolulu office for 1 year (or longer). The timing wasn't right for many reasons and we told ourselves that we'd be back to Hawaii for vacation anyways. Over the last 1-1/2 years, I definitely kicked myself more than once for not taking up my employer on the offer.

Lo and behold, a few weeks ago, the opportunity came up once again, and we were not saying no twice! While the logistics are still being worked out, it appears we will be headed out there, with our 8 month old daughter, at some point next month. It still seems so far fetched...I don't know at what point it will feel real - probably not until we land there.

I'm still trying to wrap my head around so much...

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Re: Moving to Hawaii!
« Reply #313 on: February 22, 2015, 11:57:25 PM »
Congrats..

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Re: Moving to Hawaii!
« Reply #315 on: February 22, 2015, 11:58:46 PM »
Wow - How did I not see that thread. Apologies...

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Re: Moving to Hawaii!
« Reply #316 on: February 23, 2015, 12:04:02 AM »
Which island?
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Re: Moving to Hawaii!
« Reply #317 on: February 23, 2015, 12:10:34 AM »
Which island?
Couldn't even bother to read through the OP?
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Re: Moving to Hawaii!
« Reply #318 on: February 23, 2015, 12:11:47 AM »
Couldn't even bother to read through the OP?
I actually did read the whole thing but obviously not well enough
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Re: Making A Community In Hawaii
« Reply #319 on: February 23, 2015, 01:00:21 PM »
3 years ago my wife and I went to Hawaii (Big Island and Oahu) on our honeymoon and fell in love with it. In 4 years of marriage we have been fortunate to have visited France, Italy, Hawaii, Israel, Brazil, and New Zealand. Hawaii (and Israel - which is different) was the only one where my wife said "How do we move here?"... (Disclaimer: New Zealand is INCREDIBLE, but moving to the South Island of NZ did not seem realistic) Since then we always discussed that we would retire in Hawaii one day in the future (run a Kosher B&B in Kona?). In any case, around 1-1/2 years ago, an opportunity came up at work for me to transfer to the Honolulu office for 1 year (or longer). The timing wasn't right for many reasons and we told ourselves that we'd be back to Hawaii for vacation anyways. Over the last 1-1/2 years, I definitely kicked myself more than once for not taking up my employer on the offer.

Lo and behold, a few weeks ago, the opportunity came up once again, and we were not saying no twice! While the logistics are still being worked out, it appears we will be headed out there, with our 8 month old daughter, at some point next month. It still seems so far fetched...I don't know at what point it will feel real - probably not until we land there.

I'm still trying to wrap my head around so much...
Wow, that's awesome!
Keep us posted on how it's going.
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