There appears to be a general consensus that the best thing to do is to move.
I am definitely willing to do that if I can ascertain that all the amenities that I need, including a Shul within walking distance, a pre-school and elementary school are available.
Although I am not crazy about Miami, it would be my first choice outside of NY due to the fact that it is likely to have the above establishments available to me, and it's only a 3hr flight from NYC which makes it somewhat easier for me to attend business meetings. (vs. LA etc..)
Can anyone here vouch for Miami, and if so, can you tell me if the pre-k and elementary options are good and if the housing costs (in or around the Frum areas) are reasonable, and if those areas are relatively safe?