Author Topic: Anyone know a good divorce lawyer ASAP!! (Read 13515 times)

henche · « **Reply #20 on:** February 28, 2014, 11:19:13 AM »

Quote from: sillypainter on February 28, 2014, 10:57:18 AM

Unless it's an end-of-game story, don't involve any lawyers. Lawyers make it an "official" fight. So if you think this is the route to take, then go for it.

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Other side does not need to know you are being advised by a lawyer. You need to know what your rights are, and how to protect them.

Dan · « **Reply #21 on:** February 28, 2014, 11:23:47 AM »

A good therapist will be a whole lot cheaper than a good lawyer...

A3 · « **Reply #22 on:** February 28, 2014, 11:25:57 AM »

Quote from: Dan on February 28, 2014, 11:23:47 AM

A good therapist will be a whole lot cheaper than a good lawyer...

+1.
A lot of times your personal health insurance may even cover sessions.

lunatic · « **Reply #23 on:** February 28, 2014, 11:27:40 AM »

Quote from: henche on February 28, 2014, 11:19:13 AM

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Other side does not need to know you are being advised by a lawyer. You need to know what your rights are, and how to protect them.

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Once you go to a lawyer, your whole mindset changes... don't go unless you think she is

churnbabychurn · « **Reply #24 on:** February 28, 2014, 11:32:55 AM »

If you're going through with this, you need an experienced Toein ASAP. Every move you take can be held against you so be careful.

Hope it all works out for the best.

henche · « **Reply #25 on:** February 28, 2014, 11:41:50 AM »

Quote from: churnbabychurn on February 28, 2014, 11:32:55 AM

If you're going through with this, you need an experienced Toein ASAP. Every move you take can be held against you so be careful.

Hope it all works out for the best.

+1. A toen and a lawyer.

henche · « **Reply #26 on:** February 28, 2014, 11:42:54 AM »

Quote from: bzuckerman59 on February 28, 2014, 11:27:40 AM

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Once you go to a lawyer, your whole mindset changes... don't go unless you think she is

Fair angle. Perhaps.

lunatic · « **Reply #27 on:** February 28, 2014, 12:02:19 PM »

Quote from: henche on February 28, 2014, 11:42:54 AM

Fair angle. Perhaps.

Now if Henche was a divorce lawyer... you could get both at once

Bostener · « **Reply #28 on:** February 28, 2014, 01:16:18 PM »

Quote from: henche on February 28, 2014, 11:41:50 AM

+1. A toen and a lawyer.

And a lot of $

philbenjoe · « **Reply #29 on:** February 28, 2014, 01:34:20 PM »

Quote from: Dan on February 28, 2014, 11:23:47 AM

A good therapist will be a whole lot cheaper than a good lawyer...

that's exactly my point.

Quote from: philbenjoe on February 28, 2014, 11:00:05 AM

If like he says his wife has no reason to divorce maybe some therapy together can help. Why lose the marriage if it can be saved.

moshiach1 · « **Reply #30 on:** February 28, 2014, 02:55:38 PM »

Flatbush located

Nitantnel · « **Reply #31 on:** February 28, 2014, 03:24:09 PM »

Quote from: Dan on February 28, 2014, 11:23:47 AM

A good therapist will be a whole lot cheaper than a good lawyer...

+1MIL!

If your saying she comes from a broken family, help can go a long way to improve her, and ultimately your relationship.

Don't let one Rav, or an annoying FIL determine your kids future.

12HRS · « **Reply #32 on:** February 28, 2014, 04:56:09 PM »

Quote from: Nitantnel on February 28, 2014, 03:24:09 PM

+1MIL!

I think the MIL should stay out in this situation...

A European · « **Reply #33 on:** March 01, 2014, 01:41:01 PM »

Unfortunately divorce is much more expensive then marriage.

I heard a personal story from some close relative of mine about his daughter that was offered to get married to some "CHOSHOVE mishpoche" he was so excited about it that he convinced his daughter to marry him.

End of the story they got separated 2 month after they got married (she had a baby from him) but divorced over 3 years later.

They were ready to give her a divorce just if she will be mochel the kesuvo + a lot of money she had by her MIL (he wasn't in a rush because no one else would marry him).

rots5 · « **Reply #34 on:** March 01, 2014, 01:53:01 PM »

Maybe moahiach1 doesn't want to continue his marriage. Going to therepy would be useless.

Jkhein · « **Reply #35 on:** March 01, 2014, 03:43:32 PM »

Helped a friend who used Michael Lamm from Flatbush, really good and recommended. his contact info is 718 859 3900 and email mlammesq@aol.com.
There are others in Flatbush that I would not recommend.

moshiach1 · « **Reply #36 on:** March 01, 2014, 06:59:37 PM »

Quote from: Jkhein on March 01, 2014, 03:43:32 PM

Helped a friend who used Michael Lamm from Flatbush, really good and recommended. his contact info is 718 859 3900 and email mlammesq@aol.com.
There are others in Flatbush that I would not recommend.

Lawyer or therapist?

whacked1 · « **Reply #37 on:** March 01, 2014, 07:01:21 PM »

Quote from: moshiach1 on March 01, 2014, 06:59:37 PM

Lawyer or therapist?

Quote from: Jkhein on March 01, 2014, 03:43:32 PM

Helped a friend who used Michael Lamm from Flatbush, really good and recommended. his contact info is 718 859 3900 and email mlammesq@aol.com.

it seems lawyer

Jkhein · « **Reply #38 on:** March 02, 2014, 01:16:03 AM »

Quote from: moshiach1 on March 01, 2014, 06:59:37 PM

Lawyer or therapist?

lawyer. I can recommend a therapist too. Pm me can try to help.

satturn · « **Reply #39 on:** March 02, 2014, 05:15:28 AM »

therapy must be the first option.

but if that does not work- i have heard good things about Jonathan Kroll
Office: 516-873-8000
Office: 516-324-3138

He is a frum guy who seems to deal with many frum cases.