Miles lover u seriously gotta take a chill. I have written psak that I should say the Bracha.
But one thing I can tell u. Ur sinas chinam is appalling. U should be ashamed at urself. I don't care if your right or not, but one thing I can tell u is the bai's hamikdash wasn't destroyed bec of a safek Bracha but it was destroyed bec ppl like you who are a complete disgrace to the Jews.