@chevron
You started off saying that 25% of men "sit around". Now you're saying that you have absolutely no desire to get married, and put no effort into it right now.
Those statements contradict each other.
In any case, you have a very bitter outlook on marriage (for some unexplained reason), and therefore your statements are starting to fall in place.
But please dont confuse any of that with the shidduch crisis - which is what the conversation started with.
And Btw, regarding chabad marrying litvash, as others already have pointed out, it's a totally different lifestyle. Halchakly (minhagim) /hashkafickly/ culturely/etc.