Author Topic: New Shidduch Idea (Read 70738 times)

MC · « **Reply #500 on:** March 10, 2014, 01:20:38 PM »

... And I know plenty of girls who do all the traveling

Sport · « **Reply #501 on:** March 10, 2014, 01:22:13 PM »

Quote from: Expert Flyer on March 10, 2014, 01:18:13 PM

Guys usually travel for dates and pick the tab.
I know people who spend over $12k on dates till they got married.

And not every guy has a 'list of girls' to choose from

Guys don't usually travel as far as I know. Unless your talking about close by. And for the most part guys do have lists of girls names. Maybe they don't have 10 names but they likely wil let 3 or 4 at a time.

ushdadude · « **Reply #502 on:** March 10, 2014, 01:23:08 PM »

Quote from: Expert Flyer on March 10, 2014, 01:18:13 PM

Guys usually travel for dates and pick the tab.
I know people who spend over $12k on dates till they got married.

And not every guy has a 'list of girls' to choose from

How long does it take a guy to get ready for a date versus the girl?

MC · « **Reply #503 on:** March 10, 2014, 01:23:45 PM »

Quote from: ushdadude on March 10, 2014, 01:23:08 PM

How long does it take a guy to get ready for a date versus the girl?

+100!

etech0 · « **Reply #504 on:** March 10, 2014, 01:24:12 PM »

Quote from: ushdadude on March 10, 2014, 01:23:08 PM

How long does it take a guy to get ready for a date versus the girl?

There we go....

henche · « **Reply #505 on:** March 10, 2014, 01:24:37 PM »

Quote from: ushdadude on March 10, 2014, 01:23:08 PM

How long does it take a guy to get ready for a date versus the girl?

Usually longer. Take your average date where guy is in Lakewood and girl is in Flatbush. 7:00 date.

What time does each start getting ready? What time does each get home?

Expert Flyer · « **Reply #506 on:** March 10, 2014, 01:25:21 PM »

Mind you, not every guy likes to see a girl full of make up on a date

ushdadude · « **Reply #507 on:** March 10, 2014, 01:25:27 PM »

The reason it was setup this way is that allegedly guys can take rejection better. If he says yes and the girl says no before even dating, he's supposed to be able to handle it. I dint know if this is so true nowadays.

etech0 · « **Reply #508 on:** March 10, 2014, 01:26:36 PM »

Quote from: Expert Flyer on March 10, 2014, 01:25:21 PM

Mind you, not every guy likes to see a girl full of make up on a date

And when does the girl find that out about him? Once they're married?

ushdadude · « **Reply #509 on:** March 10, 2014, 01:27:13 PM »

Quote from: henche on March 10, 2014, 01:24:37 PM

Usually longer. Take your average date where guy is in Lakewood and girl is in Flatbush. 7:00 date.

What time does each start getting ready? What time does each get home?

Make your argument stronger by changing it to monsey. But so you know, not everyone here dated from lakewood

Personally, I'd rather drive than iron my hair.

Expert Flyer · « **Reply #510 on:** March 10, 2014, 01:27:56 PM »

Quote from: ushdadude on March 10, 2014, 01:27:13 PM

Make your argument stronger by changing it to monsey

Personally, I'd rather drive than iron my hair.

Are you a woman?

ushdadude · « **Reply #511 on:** March 10, 2014, 01:29:40 PM »

Quote from: Expert Flyer on March 10, 2014, 01:27:56 PM

Are you a woman?

Nope.
I have racked up thousands of miles while dating (including back and forth to Toronto but that's a long story)

etech0 · « **Reply #512 on:** March 10, 2014, 01:30:28 PM »

Quote from: ushdadude on March 10, 2014, 01:27:13 PM

Make your argument stronger by changing it to monsey. But so you know, not everyone here dated from lakewood

Personally, I'd rather drive than iron my hair.

Or guy from brooklyn, girl from monsey. Guy takes public transportation from lakewood to brkln to get dressed and let his mother fuss over him. Then drives the family's car to monsey to get the girl. Then drives to manhattan for date. Then back to monsey to drop her off. Then drives to brooklyn to give them back the car. Then public transportation back to lakewood.

henche · « **Reply #513 on:** March 10, 2014, 01:32:14 PM »

Quote from: etech0 on March 10, 2014, 01:30:28 PM

Or guy from brooklyn, girl from monsey. Guy takes public transportation from lakewood to brkln to get dressed and let his mother fuss over him. Then drives the family's car to monsey to get the girl. Then drives to manhattan for date. Then back to monsey to drop her off. Then drives to brooklyn to give them back the car. Then public transportation back to lakewood.

That's nuts. He should borrow his chavrusah's car, and cut his mother out of it.

ushdadude · « **Reply #514 on:** March 10, 2014, 01:32:20 PM »

Quote from: etech0 on March 10, 2014, 01:30:28 PM

Or guy from brooklyn, girl from monsey. Guy takes public transportation from lakewood to brkln to get dressed and let his mother fuss over him. Then drives the family's car to monsey to get the girl. Then drives to manhattan for date. Then back to monsey to drop her off. Then drives to brooklyn to give them back the car. Then public transportation back to lakewood.

Or just don't date monsey girls