These are the questions I want answered (as someone living in the charedi community and trying not to be depressed)
1. Is this war a milchemes mitzvah (based on the Rambam, I don't see how the answer could not be yes...but I'm willing to hear) - and if so why does it not have a din of אפילו כלה מחפתה
2. Why is there no attempt to make a misgeret where those who aren't learning full time can join the army. I think that most reasonable people are OK with X percentage (that percentage might differ, and there is so much discontent now that they might not admit it) of charedim learning. The issue is that when you look around, many are not learning or not learning full time - why should they not fight?
3. Even if the charedi community doesn't go to the army - why is there no noseh b'ol - why does it not feel like there is a war going on in the charedi community? Why when I go to pay a shiva call (during bein hazmanim!) am I the only one there in a white shirt? Why isn't there a larger movement in the charedi community to support those fighting?
4. If we truly believe תורה is what will save us - why is there bein hazmanin? Why aren't there mishmaros seven days a week? Why don't we actually practice what we preach?