Appreciate if you share experiences/thoughts....
So here is goes... My brother got divorced a little more then a year ago, a few weeks after his wife/ex gave birth to their first child. He B'H got remarried a short while after that. B'H now he has the happiest marriage ever!!
Now, he really misses his child that he never really got to see, he want's to start asking to see the kid. But the question goes is it beneficial for the kid? I believe if this will result in a fight it's for sure not good for the kid, but even if the other side will decide not to fight, the question is, is its healthy for a two year old to see someone every week for a few hours? Will he even Chap that this is his father? Or is it better just to let it run... From the other side, maybe a kid has to know that he has a father, and you can't start asking for the kid what he is 8-9 years old?
Or is there a specific age when it's good to start asking for visitations?
Also, the family where he comes from, is a real dysfunctional family (which is the reason why he got divorced in the first place) so he is also worried for his child, he wants his child to see what normal life is.
Thanks guys!!