Ya you're right - better to just ignore/cast them away.
After all, if they're smoking up and hooking up we don't care about them anyway right?
I don't think I am qualified to know if making a club for OTD kids is good or bad. But one thing I do know, since the attitude changed in the frum community towards OTD kids, and the Love Mehalech became popular - the OTD problem has only gotten worse.
Is it because of the organized hangouts and the fact that they can do OTD and still have a family life? I don't know. But it definitely would make sense.
Now go ahead and kill me for not being open minded. Just please answer me this one thing - Has it gotten any better since the attitude changed or not?
I for one am undecided if we should go back to the "you're on your own" mehalech.