I just find it interesting that they're told to stay away from parades and other things. But when they're traveling and need chabad.... All of the sudden hakol beseder
When they have a relative out in the boondocks, chabad is once again in the good books
Im not answering for satmar, but in this instance, what you're saying doesn't make much sense.
The Kol Koreh was meant for the kids FWIU. They don't want thier kids getting influences from chabad. (and maybe thry suspect luring, as others here have posted. )
That problem doesn't really exist with a normal stable adult who already found his path over the last 20+ years of his life (hopefully). (obviously we all have nisyonos, but this isn't exactly a nisayaon)
I don't have a good comparison, but I'll try.
Would you want your kids playing with the goyim on the block? Leaning all the curse words, etc?
When they get older, they go to work, and many times thier surrounded by goyim. We hope by that age their hashkafas are already well built and very strong. And because there's no alternative, they go wrong with goyim.
I'm not comparing chabad to goyim. I'm comparing a different scenario for you to realize that adult life and childlife aaren't the same - influentialey.