But who's to say that learning 20% of the day isn't something to be proud of supporting
Then learn 20% of the day. Don't sit around 80% of the day wasting time.
You know how proud it makes me to meet a ben torah who works?
That's the whole other side to this kollel life we've promoted. We have guys who aren't learning all day made to feel like they are less when isn't the whole point to bring G-d into your life at all times in all ways whether learning or working?
My plumber is one of the most learned people I've met. He constantly has words of Torah coming out of his mouth and does so much chessed in the community. I don't know that he opens a sefer more than once a week. But it's honest. His torah learning. His bringing Torah into his life everyday. It's honest.
Also, we've started raising houses where women need to go work and no one is around to raise the kids. Yes, some do it better than others but you can't compare to a house where a mother is home and has time to make dinner and is waiting for her kids to get off the bus.