Agreed.
@jye Please let us know what your standards are.
Going to Miami is ok not on the beach, what about the women not tznius on the plane at the airport?
Last time I was at MIA there were multiple women in swimsuits at baggage claim. Does that rule out the destination in the future for you?
The more we know the more we can help find the right place for you.
All jokes aside I’d like to address a common misconception about these halachos.
The Gemara is undisputed and is brought down in שולחן ערוך and all later poskim without dispute:
עוצם עיניו מראות ברע א"ר חייא בר אבא זה שאין מסתכל בנשים בשעה שעומדות על הכביסה היכי דמי אי דאיכא דרכא אחריתא רשע הוא אי דליכא דרכא אחריתא אנוס הוא לעולם דליכא דרכא אחריתא ואפ"ה מיבעי ליה למינס נפשיה
What is considered ליכא דרכא אחריתא is a huge gray area with far reaching implications that is discussed in the poskim. For example Rav Moshe in אהע״ז נ״ז allowed Rabbi Bursztein (Rabbi Burztein of Lakewood fames father), an older man, to go to a beach (Rabbi Bursztein’s brother told me it was the Rockaways) despite the clientele there for specific health needs. See there for Rav Moshe’s idea that in some cases the איסור may be דרבנן.
There are a wide range of halachic opinions on the issue that have implications for going to trade shows, working in mahhattan, going on a bus or plane, etc. Many of these situations are indeed considered ליכא דרכא אחריתא particularly where Parnassa is concerned, even if there is a kosher (but more onerous) workaround. Obviously many people will have different standards in this area, and each can be valid al pi halacha.
This does not mean that everything in this area is personal choice and preference so one guy takes off his glasses on Forest Ave in Lakewood, another goes to the airport where there are immodestly dressed women, and a thirds simply takes it up a notch and hangs out at an immodest venu without further thought. Rather there is a definite level of איכא דרכא אחריתא that is not subject to personal choice and preference and is אסור without dispute. This level should of course be clarified with ones Rav and moreh derech.