Well, then we're in the same boat pretty much. At least as of now. The ma'alah I had was getting my license before I got married. At this point, however, I spend maybe between $1k and $2k a year on it (usually closer to $1k). I try to go as often as I can with others who are willing to chip in.
Missed the boat on that part, but slowly but surely, my log book is getting filled
Eta: had once a relative call me to discuss (as he was looking into getting lessons), and he asked me if my wife has an issue that I take lessons, well, a day after Sheva Bruchas, my wife joined me on an intro lessons...