'chuchem' seams to believe that if you cannot be perfect you should do whatever you want.
BTW IMO if you are at a lower level in "ruchnius" in a certain subject than someone else you should not be the one questioning him on that
I never said that, dont make up what I believe.
But if he really wants to do things 100% according to Halacha and I admire him for this, I was asking how thats justified
If he sends his wife in advance then kol hakawod, but it doesnt take away the good chance that someone will come after you are there
What he did was for sure better then most of us that travel to these places, but if you want to keep to 100% shmiras enayim Hawaii Hotel pools isnt a good idea, even being careful