For flights it really depends on which destinations you're going to.
Are you booking last minute?
Getting BA points might be a good idea.
If booking in advance, Maybe southwest points/ cheap JetBlue and frontier flights.
For car rentals, costco travel(if you're a costco member) the UR travel portal, Hotwire, and Priceline bidding are some ideas. Also sign up for hertz and national loyalty programs.
Hotels: check the IHG point breaks list, priceline bidding and a combination of SPG and marriott points(think ritz CC 140k+ 50k marriott matched to 70/80k). If you have time for BRG searching try choice and IHG.
Godaven is good for minyanim