Rabosai...first off instead of jumping on me, may I suggest jumping on the OP? We're saying basically the same thing.
Second off, there's no machlokes that some DDFers are extreme. Extreme is no good. So whether or not any one of you is extreme, I'm not going to offer an opinion (except the ones I know). But don't make it sound like I'm saying something crazy here. All I'm doing is making a simple point-that SOME people here are taking things to an extreme and it's not good. Case closed.