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Is the wall of shame of JCW necessary?

Yes
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No
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Its complicated
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Re: Wall of shame???
« Reply #260 on: March 27, 2015, 03:30:15 PM »
From the conversations I've had with frum professionals in this field, there is a lot being done, including reporting to the police. However, just because all of us armchair quarterbacks (mixed metaphor acknowledged) aren't aware of it doesn't make it untrue. It would seem the reason much if what is being done is not well known is because often the publicity is counter-productive, causes unnecessary chillul Hashem, and ruins lives based on suspicions. So it is dealt with in a more tznua (quiet) fashion which often gets more efficient results. Unless you live under a rock, I would think parents are at least aware of this issue.
And I believe that the majority of molestation are by family members (uncles, step-family, cousins) not in camps or schools

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Re: Wall of shame???
« Reply #261 on: March 27, 2015, 03:49:02 PM »
It would seem the reason much if what is being done is not well known is because often the publicity is counter-productive, causes unnecessary chillul Hashem, and ruins lives based on suspicions. So it is dealt with in a more tznua (quiet) fashion which often gets more efficient results.
Where have I heard this before?
Is it your goal to make the same exact point on each page of this thread?
I just found a new supply of forks!

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Re: Wall of shame???
« Reply #262 on: March 27, 2015, 03:57:12 PM »


1. Perhaps the forum rabbi should chime in on this one, but I'm quite certain that once a matter is public, it is no longer Lashon Hora.


I am not the forum rabbi and i am not getting involved in the general conversation but from my understanding of the CC about this specific halacha that is not poshut at all... Its only if there r multiple kol's from numerous places of a person committing numerous sins that would make him an apikores or rasha. I dont know if everyone knows about something bec  someone made a stink about it would qualify....

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Re: Wall of shame???
« Reply #263 on: March 27, 2015, 04:42:24 PM »
One of them is in federal prison so there is no parole.

The other was sentenced to over 100 years so I doubt there is any chance for parole. Though he is in state prison so technically it may be possible.

Appeals court? Retrial?

I can see the Weberman sentence being appealed.

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Don't believe everything that you read on failedmessiah... he hasn't been convicted (or even named as the defendant of the prison rape case) of anything yet from since he went to prison while it may be true there is no reason to jump the gun, because he is still in prison and posting it on the Internet wont help protect his fellow inmates.

Failedmessiah? This was reported in a prominent Australian newspaper.

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Re: Wall of shame???
« Reply #264 on: March 27, 2015, 04:54:21 PM »
Appeals court? Retrial?

I can see the Weberman sentence being appealed.

Failedmessiah? This was reported in a prominent Australian newspaper.
link?
I wonder what people who type "u" instead of "you" do with all their free time.

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Re: Wall of shame???
« Reply #265 on: March 27, 2015, 05:11:14 PM »
Appeals court? Retrial?
The first case I was talking about has been appealed, unsuccessfully.

I can see the Weberman sentence being appealed.
If that happens it will definitely be posted along with all the JCW FB page updates... It would definitely not go unnoticed if he ever leaves prison, or submits an appeal.


Failedmessiah? This was reported in a prominent Australian newspaper.
Has  it been confirmed that cyp*** is the defendant in that case, to sum up what I've heard nobody is %100 sure that it's even him being accused, and even if he actually is the defendant in the prison rape case nobody knows yet if he's guilty, cmiiw.

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Re: Wall of shame???
« Reply #266 on: March 27, 2015, 05:13:30 PM »
One of them is in federal prison so there is no parole.

The other was sentenced to over 100 years so I doubt there is any chance for parole. Though he is in state prison so technically it may be possible.

Don't believe anything that you read on failedmessiah... he hasn't been convicted (or even named as the defendant of the prison rape case) of anything yet from since he went to prison while it may be true there is no reason to jump the gun, because he is still in prison and posting it on the Internet wont help protect his fellow inmates.
FTFY
I wonder what people who type "u" instead of "you" do with all their free time.

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Re: Wall of shame???
« Reply #267 on: March 27, 2015, 05:16:20 PM »
FTFY
Just because something is posted on Failedmessiah doesn't mean it's not true...

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Re: Wall of shame???
« Reply #268 on: March 27, 2015, 05:18:19 PM »
Just because something is posted on Failedmessiah doesn't mean it's not true...
But why take the chance? :P

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Re: Wall of shame???
« Reply #269 on: March 27, 2015, 05:18:48 PM »
Just because something is posted on Failedmessiah doesn't mean it's not true...
that site is all made up stories and real stories twisted to sound much worse
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Re: Wall of shame???
« Reply #270 on: March 27, 2015, 05:23:52 PM »


that site has made up stories and real stories twisted to sound much worse
FTFY

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Re: Wall of shame???
« Reply #271 on: March 27, 2015, 05:25:20 PM »
I wonder what people who type "u" instead of "you" do with all their free time.

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Re: Wall of shame???
« Reply #272 on: March 27, 2015, 05:26:13 PM »
Recommended reading:

Parts of the Pischei T'shuva on OC Siman 156.

I think this sums up the discussion.
The Baal Shem Tov went around for the sole purpose of getting Jews to say, baruch (drawing down) Hashem into our lives.

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Re: Wall of shame???
« Reply #273 on: March 27, 2015, 05:28:17 PM »
Where have I heard this before?
I said it includes (very often if not most times) actually reporting it and doing things in tandem with frum professionals not just rabbonim

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Re: Wall of shame???
« Reply #274 on: March 27, 2015, 05:35:05 PM »
The Baal Shem Tov went around for the sole purpose of getting Jews to say, baruch (drawing down) Hashem into our lives.

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Re: Wall of shame???
« Reply #275 on: March 30, 2015, 09:21:10 AM »

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Re: Wall of shame???
« Reply #277 on: April 26, 2015, 08:01:36 PM »
https://youtu.be/EGB-fn_Ch8Y They make some really great points in this video.

With that being said I will not stand in support of JCW while seewald is in charge because he's poorly educated, violent, unstable, not frum, and a recovering alcoholic, who used violence and threats as a tool to run crown heights watch (jcw 1.0)
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Re: Wall of shame???
« Reply #278 on: May 28, 2015, 11:12:03 PM »
I eat most of my words from my last comment and stand corrected, I still don't agree with all of JCW's methods but I'm not going to bash them anymore because if not for them the abuse situation today would be the same as it was 5 years ago ime, here's a video of a young survivor talking about how JCW changed his life. https://youtu.be/ciUu9qX-fj4

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Re: Wall of shame???
« Reply #279 on: June 25, 2015, 09:04:16 PM »