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Re: Re: Random questions.
« Reply #6260 on: September 06, 2022, 04:32:57 PM »
What is the reaction when an Orthodox Jew finds out they ate trief? Is it physical, emotional or both? Is there an example a non-Jew could relate to?
Imagine finding out that the delicious dinner you just ate was actually the family pet dog.
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Re: Re: Random questions.
« Reply #6261 on: September 06, 2022, 04:34:09 PM »
I would think it's mostly emotional (that could lead to physical).

I'm not sure if this is a good example for a non-Jew to relate to the feeling, but imagine doing something you believe is 100% ok and mundane, only to discover in retrospect that due to ignorance beyond your control you actually did something you consider repulsive and immoral.
I would then say an example would be to find out you ate dog.
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You said immoral, how so?
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Re: Re: Random questions.
« Reply #6262 on: September 06, 2022, 04:35:00 PM »
Imagine finding out that the delicious dinner you just ate was actually the family pet dog.
racist much? ;)

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Re: Re: Random questions.
« Reply #6263 on: September 06, 2022, 04:36:20 PM »
Imagine finding out that the delicious dinner you just ate was actually the family pet dog.

I was going to post this clip: https://youtu.be/WR6d67O6478?t=195

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Re: Re: Random questions.
« Reply #6264 on: September 06, 2022, 04:37:01 PM »
racist much? ;)
I have a brown dog so I am ok.
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Re: Re: Random questions.
« Reply #6265 on: September 06, 2022, 04:37:21 PM »
I would then say an example would be to find out you ate dog.

You said immoral, how so?

I am not saying that eating non-kosher by mistake is immoral.

Eating dog isn't considered immoral, and is accepted in some cultures.

I am comparing it to a mundane act innocently done, which later on is discovered to be really (almost objectively, but definitely in your own eyes and culture) wrong.
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Re: Re: Random questions.
« Reply #6266 on: September 06, 2022, 04:39:17 PM »
I am not saying that eating non-kosher by mistake is immoral.
That is what I was wondering.
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Re: Re: Random questions.
« Reply #6267 on: September 06, 2022, 04:42:21 PM »
When will you know what thread be moved to JS?
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Re: Re: Random questions.
« Reply #6268 on: September 06, 2022, 04:43:53 PM »
When will you know what thread be moved to JS?
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Re: Re: Random questions.
« Reply #6269 on: September 06, 2022, 04:45:17 PM »
What is the reaction when an Orthodox Jew finds out they ate trief? Is it physical, emotional or both? Is there an example a non-Jew could relate to?
You're dating someone for a while and learn they were also adopted. You browse DD and find a deal on DNA test to learn more about your pasts.
Turns out that you're siblings.
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Re: Re: Random questions.
« Reply #6270 on: September 06, 2022, 04:47:34 PM »
You're dating someone for a while and learn they were also adopted. You browse DD and find a deal on DNA test to learn more about your pasts.
Turns out that you're siblings.
So Trump voters?  :)
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Re: Re: Random questions.
« Reply #6271 on: September 06, 2022, 04:50:10 PM »
You're dating someone for a while and learn they were also adopted. You browse DD and find a deal on DNA test to learn more about your pasts.
Turns out that you're siblings.

That analogy would be correct if one actually married.
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Re: Re: Random questions.
« Reply #6272 on: September 08, 2022, 09:29:53 AM »
You're dating someone for a while and learn they were also adopted. You browse DD and find a deal on DNA test to learn more about your pasts.
Turns out that you're siblings.
Naturally this now pops up in my feed :P
https://www.boredpanda.com/couple-brother-sister-dna-reddit
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Re: Re: Random questions.
« Reply #6273 on: September 08, 2022, 09:47:37 AM »
Naturally this now pops up in my feed :P
https://www.boredpanda.com/couple-brother-sister-dna-reddit
You hear these stories every now and then. Assuming true what would you do? What if you were married already?
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Re: Re: Random questions.
« Reply #6274 on: September 08, 2022, 09:51:55 AM »
You hear these stories every now and then. Assuming true what would you do? What if you were married already?

Almost impossible to happen to frum people today given the amount of info we can trace.
« Last Edit: September 08, 2022, 09:59:00 AM by EliJelly »

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Re: Re: Random questions.
« Reply #6275 on: September 08, 2022, 09:58:04 AM »
You hear these stories every now and then. Assuming true what would you do? What if you were married already?
You wouldn’t be considered married any longer.

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Re: Re: Random questions.
« Reply #6276 on: September 08, 2022, 09:58:18 AM »
Almost impossible to happen to frum people today given the amount of info we can trace, in any case an immediate Get (divorce) will be required.
אין קידושין תופסים I don't think they need a get

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Re: Re: Random questions.
« Reply #6277 on: September 08, 2022, 10:00:24 AM »
אין קידושין תופסים I don't think they need a get

Ha of course, edited mine. Tried to explain they'd need to separate immediately.

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Re: Re: Random questions.
« Reply #6278 on: September 08, 2022, 09:11:19 PM »
Almost impossible to happen to frum people today given the amount of info we can trace.
Another good reason why birur yuchsin should be done universally, even those the rav knows personally

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Re: Re: Random questions.
« Reply #6279 on: September 08, 2022, 11:03:28 PM »
If he is not there all the time that is a disaster waiting to happen.
Isn’t this how health (and most government) inspectors operate? They randomly drop in to make sure you are following the rules, and the fear keeps you honest*. Same thing with tax audits.



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