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Re: DAOTYA/DACOTYA
« Reply #120 on: July 18, 2021, 11:14:45 PM »
Sholom zochor is the worst Simcha to attend

And the one in the worst position is often the host.
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Re: DAOTYA/DACOTYA
« Reply #121 on: July 18, 2021, 11:15:07 PM »
The good part of a sholem zucher sometimes is that I'm yoitze for the vacht nacht already. Especially when the location is much closer than the Vach nacht.

In Lubavitch vach nacht is just for a few kids to come say shema and get pecklach. Hearing that it is a whole massive event was mind blowing for me
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Re: DAOTYA/DACOTYA
« Reply #122 on: July 18, 2021, 11:16:11 PM »
In Lubavitch vach nacht is just for a few kids to come say shema and get pecklach. Hearing that it is a whole massive event was mind blowing for me
Hearing now that it is not is mind blowing for me :)

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Re: DAOTYA/DACOTYA
« Reply #123 on: July 18, 2021, 11:17:50 PM »
In Lubavitch vach nacht is just for a few kids to come say shema and get pecklach. Hearing that it is a whole massive event was mind blowing for me
Growing up in lakewood, I had the exact same experience. I was shocked to find out a vacht nach can be more than shema and pekelach.
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Re: DAOTYA/DACOTYA
« Reply #124 on: July 19, 2021, 01:59:41 AM »
Growing up in lakewood, I had the exact same experience. I was shocked to find out a vacht nach can be more than shema and pekelach.
Yup, something I was warned when I moved to Lakewood, when your neighbor has a boy don't knock on the door to say mazel tov unless you verify that they're expecting guest

When I was learning in EY I found out that not everyone stays up till the morning
when I moved to Lakewood I found out that not everyone has a vachnacht on their simcha checklist
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Re: DAOTYA/DACOTYA
« Reply #125 on: July 19, 2021, 07:16:06 AM »
Yup, something I was warned when I moved to Lakewood, when your neighbor has a boy don't knock on the door to say mazel tov unless you verify that they're expecting guest

When I was learning in EY I found out that not everyone stays up till the morning
when I moved to Lakewood I found out that not everyone has a vachnacht on their simcha checklist

Oh hells no! There are places people just rock up to your house within weeks of having a baby? Sheesh.

Also, by us the father stays up, it's just not a big event

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Re: DAOTYA/DACOTYA
« Reply #126 on: July 19, 2021, 08:48:22 AM »
In Lubavitch vach nacht is just for a few kids to come say shema and get pecklach. Hearing that it is a whole massive event was mind blowing for me
Growing up in lakewood, I had the exact same experience. I was shocked to find out a vacht nach can be more than shema and pekelach.
You mean to say this isn’t the norm ? :)

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Re: DAOTYA/DACOTYA
« Reply #127 on: July 19, 2021, 09:05:41 AM »
I'm pretty sure I've said this before on this here forum.

There are worse events, like an upsherinish, but at least they have redeeming qualities for some attendees. No one wants to go to a Sholom zochor (other than the Charlies of the world)
You haven't been to some of these upsherins of late.
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Re: DAOTYA/DACOTYA
« Reply #128 on: July 19, 2021, 10:52:19 AM »
You mean to say this isn’t the norm ? :)

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Re: DAOTYA/DACOTYA
« Reply #129 on: July 19, 2021, 11:07:44 AM »
Kudos to the party planning industry that manages to create a need for their services.

That has to be the best post-9 Av take anyone could have come up with. Kudos to you.
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Re: DAOTYA/DACOTYA
« Reply #130 on: July 19, 2021, 11:16:56 AM »
Kudos to the party planning industry that manages to create a need for their services.
Well said!!

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Re: DAOTYA/DACOTYA
« Reply #132 on: August 05, 2021, 05:03:37 AM »
https://www.wcvb.com/article/boston-mayor-janey-compares-vaccine-passports-to-slave-papers-birtherism/37213542#

Her position is actually far more consistent than the D’s attacking her. If you are willing to give up some vote integrity because you believe voter ID is discriminatory against blacks/Hispanics, you should be screaming about the extreme discrimination that vaccine mandates cause to the same group.

Voter ID is supposedly discrimination against a tiny amount of people that might be too dumb/lazy to get ID, but can get it if they really cared. Vaccine mandates is extreme discrimination against the large percentage of blacks that don’t want to vaccinate, and historically, were used as vaccine guinea pigs.

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Re: DAOTYA/DACOTYA
« Reply #133 on: August 10, 2021, 11:31:11 PM »
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Re: DAOTYA/DACOTYA
« Reply #134 on: August 17, 2021, 03:11:12 PM »

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Re: DAOTYA/DACOTYA
« Reply #135 on: August 17, 2021, 03:33:07 PM »
https://twitter.com/ArielElyseGold/ status/ 1427613023951261706

This isn't worthy of DAOTYA/DACOTYA, it is puke worthy (which is why I quoted in a way that it doesn't display in the quote), or maybe just plain old antisemitic or bitter OTD.
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Re: DAOTYA/DACOTYA
« Reply #138 on: September 02, 2021, 11:57:45 AM »
I am (happily) shocked that this was the outcome. I was sure that there's no way this was gonna happen in CA.
Just as there are idiots everywhere there are also sane people everywhere. It is just harder to find them.  :)
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Re: DAOTYA/DACOTYA
« Reply #139 on: September 02, 2021, 12:23:03 PM »
She’s a product of our education system. How should she know any better ?
Not sure why TikTok would remove it when they leave up some of the most vile stuff out there.