Reminds me of the Haitian Caregiver who I saw on an occasional basis, and after her not seeing me in a year, the first thing she said when I walked into the house was "wow, you got fat!" (Mind you was just 15 more pounds). I don't think she intended it as an insult.
Reminds me of a woman I know who had given birth and gained a few pounds, which, unbeknownst to her, had apparently become a topic of conversation.
One day a relative who she had not seen for a while came to visit. Upon opening the door the relative proclaimed, "ahhhh, at lo kol kach shmeina."