What if you are a good girl and want to meet good boys? Shouldn't that be encouraged instead of the gawd awful system of resumes, good looks, money and materialism?
Case in point of how diverse DDF is. As someone who grew up in a yeshiva setting, we were taught that you don't talk to girls until shudduchim.
Now the people who are in shidduchim are not going to the pizza shops on motzei shabbos to find their zivug. Rather they go on formal dates, and they go thru the whole dating process.