A newly married BT couple was having their first seder. Being as they'd never been at a seder before, they didn't know what they were suppose to do, so the husband tells his wife "Go look through the window and see what the neighbors are doing". The wife goes to the window, and sees the sephardic neighbors being chased around the table by one of the members of the family holding a stick, (to reenact the shibud mitzrayim). Shocked, the wife goes back to the table. Her husband asks "So nu, what were they doing?" "I'm not telling", she responds. "Why not", he asks, "just tell me?" "No! I'm not telling you!" The argument progresses to a screaming match until eventually, the husband is holding the broom and chasing his wife around the table. In tears, she asks him "If you already knew what to do, why did you ask me to go look through the window?"
