I respect that, but I was in the same situation and I made a different decision. It ended up working out for us because our family was attending a scheduled event elsewhere and couldn't have made it anyway. We ended up flying (8-hour flight) at 3 weeks in a good Economy Premium hard product, and my wife said she was much more ready than she had been a few weeks prior.
Hope everything goes smooth and if you decide to travel it's as hassle free as possible.
You should definitely explore premium cabin options, will give you more privacy and possibly expedited security, lounge, etc.