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Swimming with Wife at empty hotel pools
« on: February 08, 2011, 11:02:32 PM »
I've heard from a lot of people who will go swimming with their wife at a hotel/resort pool that's deserted, at night or off season etc. Bear in mind that pool areas always have security cameras (to prevent lawsuits in case of accidents), which are being watched by a security guard and stored on tape for posterity. Does anyone else have an opinion in this?

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Re: Swimming with Wife at empty hotel pools
« Reply #1 on: February 08, 2011, 11:07:53 PM »
are you talking halachically?

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Re: Swimming with Wife at empty hotel pools
« Reply #2 on: February 08, 2011, 11:08:14 PM »
I really think this is a question which should be brought to you LOR
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Re: Swimming with Wife at empty hotel pools
« Reply #3 on: February 08, 2011, 11:28:35 PM »
anyone know a hotel with private pools?

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Re: Swimming with Wife at empty hotel pools
« Reply #4 on: February 08, 2011, 11:31:34 PM »
We had one here...
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Re: Swimming with Wife at empty hotel pools
« Reply #5 on: February 08, 2011, 11:57:02 PM »
where?

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Re: Swimming with Wife at empty hotel pools
« Reply #6 on: February 08, 2011, 11:59:27 PM »
What about the cam. In the changing room /bathrooms. Since when is a tape a problem

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Re: Swimming with Wife at empty hotel pools
« Reply #7 on: February 09, 2011, 12:04:06 AM »
there are (hopefully) no cameras in the bathrooms.
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Re: Swimming with Wife at empty hotel pools
« Reply #8 on: February 09, 2011, 12:05:12 AM »
We hope but now adays with all the lawsuits I'll bet places do have them

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Re: Swimming with Wife at empty hotel pools
« Reply #9 on: February 09, 2011, 12:06:52 AM »
We hope but now adays with all the lawsuits I'll bet places do have them

That's a cause for lawsuits as well, no?
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Re: Swimming with Wife at empty hotel pools
« Reply #10 on: February 09, 2011, 12:08:55 AM »
I've heard of it in public school bathrooms but in a hotel?!
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Re: Swimming with Wife at empty hotel pools
« Reply #11 on: February 09, 2011, 12:09:52 AM »
I think that if there's a sign then it's ok even if the sign is when you walk into the store and not in the bathroom

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Re: Swimming with Wife at empty hotel pools
« Reply #12 on: February 09, 2011, 12:12:19 AM »
where?
Le Meridian Khao Lak, Thailand.

Since when is a tape a problem
I doubt it is.

Besides are you going to tell me that there are cameras covering the endless amounts of pools and hot tubs in a place like the Grand Hyatt Kauai?  And that the cameras can pick up whats going on at night?  Maybe there are cameras in the GHK in the little caves hidden behind the waterfalls along the pool?
And I'm sure there's a whole team of guards actively watching the 500 screens it would take to cover all that...

A forum member (and concierge purchaser) is there right now actually.  Maybe he can chime in about this secret labyrinth of snooping cameras?
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Re: Swimming with Wife at empty hotel pools
« Reply #13 on: February 09, 2011, 12:41:17 AM »
A forum member (and concierge purchaser) is there right now actually.  Maybe he can chime in about this secret labyrinth of snooping cameras?

I hope he knows better than to be on DDF.
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Re: Swimming with Wife at empty hotel pools
« Reply #14 on: February 09, 2011, 01:27:15 AM »
Last time I was in the bathroom in a spa resort, the security guys, decided to post it on youtube.

I'm proud to say, with over 5MM views...

What's this nonsense, there are no cameras in bathrooms, unless in high security places.

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Re: Swimming with Wife at empty hotel pools
« Reply #15 on: February 09, 2011, 02:37:56 AM »
We had one here...
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Re: Swimming with Wife at empty hotel pools
« Reply #16 on: February 09, 2011, 02:50:08 AM »
I really think this is a question which should be brought to you LOR
similiar to LEO

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Re: Swimming with Wife at empty hotel pools
« Reply #17 on: February 09, 2011, 03:03:15 AM »
Unless you have a private pool like dan in thailand its for sure not allowed. There are 2 issuese. For you its not allowed to see other women in bikins or less and for your wife its a problem not being fully covered in front of other people. So even late at night or at a quiet beach
The chance that someone will pass by or look out of window and see her is a problem. For a men, it makes a diffrence as he will not see other girls. I doubt you will find a rabbi that allows it for a wife. Do whatever you want, but dont fool yourself that its mutar.

I would think that a camera is a problem as well. Its for sure not znius for a wife to be undressed were someone can see her, even if its only on a digital screen.

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Re: Swimming with Wife at empty hotel pools
« Reply #18 on: February 09, 2011, 03:39:55 AM »
If the screens are like LH F ones, its lechol hade'os mutar.

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Re: Swimming with Wife at empty hotel pools
« Reply #19 on: February 09, 2011, 05:57:43 AM »
If the screens are like LH F ones, its lechol hade'os mutar.

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