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Re: bargaining for esrog
« Reply #100 on: October 01, 2015, 01:10:15 AM »
Many bochurim selling from tables on 13 ave are working for the same supplier.  These bochurim have very little risk and have flexibility in pricing.  The supplier expects only a certain amount of money to come in from them.  Bargaining is not taking food off of any socher's table.  Buying at the last minute helps the bochur make an extra few bucks.
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Re: bargaining for esrog
« Reply #101 on: October 01, 2015, 01:12:29 AM »

I don't think it's fair. Whether you should feel guilty depends, IMO, on your financial situation.

I won't buy from you because you don't think it's fair. And you can be stuck with the unsaleable goods you overbought. I'll buy from the guy down the street who is happy I took it off his hands.

And your other argument about it being somehow taboo to bargain for something used for religious purposes is even more ridiculous.

If there were price stickers on each item and not dynamic pricing based on all sorts of arcana, maybe that would fly, but only because bargaining would have been preempted by fair and known prices.
I remember when a coke was a nickel, and you could buy VRs in OD.

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Re: bargaining for esrog
« Reply #102 on: October 01, 2015, 01:12:49 AM »
I believe some OOT have takanos, resulting in poorer quality.
No takanos where I live, and I get beautiful esrogim for 1/2 of what I paid in lakewood.

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Re: bargaining for esrog
« Reply #103 on: October 01, 2015, 01:14:18 AM »
I myself don't buy last minute, but I certainly wouldn't fault someone who did.
I remember when a coke was a nickel, and you could buy VRs in OD.

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Re: bargaining for esrog
« Reply #104 on: October 01, 2015, 01:18:08 AM »


I won't buy from you because you don't think it's fair. And you can be stuck with the unsaleable goods you overbought. I'll buy from the guy down the street who is happy I took it off his hands.

And your other argument about it being somehow taboo to bargain for something used for religious purposes is even more ridiculous.

If there were price stickers on each item and not dynamic pricing based on all sorts of arcana, maybe that would fly, but only because bargaining would have been preempted by fair and known prices.

That's okay, I don't sell esrogim. :)

I think there are somewhat objective criteria to determine prices (although of course it will never be perfect); the sellers pay vastly different prices for different esrogim.

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Re: bargaining for esrog
« Reply #105 on: October 01, 2015, 01:21:18 AM »


That's okay, I don't sell esrogim. :)

I think there are somewhat objective criteria to determine prices (although of course it will never be perfect); the sellers pay vastly different prices for different esrogim.

I'm not complaining about the sellers' practices either. I'm laissez-faire in both directions.
I remember when a coke was a nickel, and you could buy VRs in OD.

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Re: bargaining for esrog
« Reply #106 on: October 01, 2015, 01:23:11 AM »
The market value has changed, but I think it's unfair. (That's why I said "fair" market value.)
I think there are somewhat objective criteria to determine prices (although of course it will never be perfect); the sellers pay vastly different prices for different esrogim.
The argument can then just as easily be made that the pre sukkos prices aren't "fair" even though they are based upon market value. Who is to decide how much the mocher "should" made for the season?
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Re: bargaining for esrog
« Reply #107 on: October 01, 2015, 01:34:14 AM »
The argument can then just as easily be made that the pre sukkos prices aren't "fair" even though they are based upon market value. Who is to decide how much the mocher "should" made for the season?
Perhaps that's true, but I don't think it's the retailers' fault based on my observations.

What I would base it on is a comparison to other retail businesses and how much profit is made relative to time, effort, skills, risk, etc.

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Re: bargaining for esrog
« Reply #108 on: October 01, 2015, 10:55:20 AM »
I davka bought an American esrog, so as not to be mesayea yedei ovrei aveirah

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Re: bargaining for esrog
« Reply #109 on: October 01, 2015, 11:19:28 AM »
Kapilornia is in America?

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Re: bargaining for esrog
« Reply #110 on: October 01, 2015, 11:23:38 AM »
Kapilornia is in America?

Apparently. I also called a posek and asked if bargaining on erev sukkos for an Israeli one would be "sechora."

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Re: bargaining for esrog
« Reply #111 on: October 01, 2015, 11:24:24 AM »
Apparently. I also called a posek and asked if bargaining on erev sukkos for an Israeli one would be "sechora."
And he said?

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Re: bargaining for esrog
« Reply #112 on: October 01, 2015, 11:28:11 AM »
Apparently. I also called a posek and asked if bargaining on erev sukkos for an Israeli one would be "sechora."
You were bargaining for the lulav, no? The esrog was a friendly gift.
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Re: bargaining for esrog
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Re: bargaining for esrog
« Reply #114 on: October 01, 2015, 11:47:12 AM »
Buy American.
Lucky you, turns out Kapilornia is in America.

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Re: bargaining for esrog
« Reply #115 on: October 01, 2015, 12:01:50 PM »
Buy American.
I called Trump, he said the same thing.
Who do you think you are fooling? You think you are going to pull a quick one on your Creator? Good luck with that.
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Re: bargaining for esrog
« Reply #116 on: October 04, 2015, 10:20:02 AM »
I have a really good bargain on a beautiful esrog.

Anyone interested, PM me.

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Re: bargaining for esrog
« Reply #117 on: October 04, 2015, 10:31:49 AM »
I have a really good bargain on a beautiful esrog.

Anyone interested, PM me.
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Re: bargaining for esrog
« Reply #118 on: October 04, 2015, 11:03:20 AM »
I have a really good bargain on a beautiful esrog.

Anyone interested, PM me.
i have a good bargain on a terrible looking esrog. It's over ripe and brown.

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Re: bargaining for esrog
« Reply #119 on: October 04, 2015, 11:04:15 AM »
i have a good bargain on a terrible looking esrog. It's over ripe and brown.
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