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Re: The Future of Lakewood
« Reply #2100 on: July 28, 2022, 03:21:16 PM »
As much as I like to make fun of TLS for all their shananagins, I agree 100 percent that they are not allowed to publish a story that contains lashon harah. The "Chilul Hashem" story doesn't hold any water if they are violating halacha, and there is zero heter of parnassah in lashon harah. (The Chofetz Chaim famously writes that if a boss tells you that if you don't say lashon harah he will fire you, and you will have no other source of parnassah, you are still not allowed to say the lashon harah.)

If one cannot get around the issue of lashon harah, they should close down their site.

And there is nothing wrong with being a blog site and not an "unbiased, we publish everything" news site.

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Re: The Future of Lakewood
« Reply #2101 on: July 28, 2022, 04:21:03 PM »

If one cannot get around the issue of lashon harah, they should close down their site.


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Re: The Future of Lakewood
« Reply #2102 on: July 28, 2022, 05:01:32 PM »
https://thelakewoodscoop.com/news/first-report-askonim-including-louis-scheiner-meet-to-discuss-program-that-could-benefit-thousands-of-lakewood-families-photo/
What’s this all about?
School vouchers. Good intentions on their part but pie in the sky. This has about as much chance getting through the liberal Teachers Union dominated NJ legislature as getting AOC to volunteer for the IDF.


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Re: The Future of Lakewood
« Reply #2103 on: July 28, 2022, 08:06:05 PM »
As much as I like to make fun of TLS for all their shananagins, I agree 100 percent that they are not allowed to publish a story that contains lashon harah. The "Chilul Hashem" story doesn't hold any water if they are violating halacha, and there is zero heter of parnassah in lashon harah. (The Chofetz Chaim famously writes that if a boss tells you that if you don't say lashon harah he will fire you, and you will have no other source of parnassah, you are still not allowed to say the lashon harah.)

If one cannot get around the issue of lashon harah, they should close down their site.

And there is nothing wrong with being a blog site and not an "unbiased, we publish everything" news site.

Don't want any of these sites to post LH. My gripe is that they post a "news" story of someone getting arrested for something like a minor drug crime, along with 7 videos and 83 pictures of the perp and the incident, but only if the person isn't Jewish. The readership is not all that stupid. If it's obvious that you're censoring/ignoring incidents with Jewish perps, don't cover these incidents at all.
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The Future of Lakewood
« Reply #2104 on: July 28, 2022, 08:17:16 PM »
Don't want any of these sites to post LH. My gripe is that they post a "news" story of someone getting arrested for something like a minor drug crime, along with 7 videos and 83 pictures of the perp and the incident, but only if the person isn't Jewish. The readership is not all that stupid. If it's obvious that you're censoring/ignoring incidents with Jewish perps, don't cover these incidents at all.
Yes! This was my point. It's blatant, and obvious to their non frum readers.

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Re: The Future of Lakewood
« Reply #2105 on: July 28, 2022, 08:28:19 PM »
Yes! This was my point. It's blatant, and obvious to their non frum readers.
Don’t see a reason to care… this is not a chilul hashem. TLS is geared towards and caters to frum readers, if you don’t like it get your (fake)news somewhere else…

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Re: The Future of Lakewood
« Reply #2106 on: July 28, 2022, 08:41:47 PM »
Are there a lot of Jewish perps arrested in minor drug crimes? Is APP et al censoring them too?

On a serious note I hear your point and agree it's glaring to protect the Jews anonymity and post names and details regarding other incidences, crime or not.

There are some arrested, I personally don't find any of it newsworthy. My point wasn't specifically about minor drug stories, it can be about theft,  reckless driver accident, and any local news story that only gets censored for Jews. Then you have a major local news story that gets covered in the APP and elsewhere, and you can't find a trace of it on any local Jewish website. It's really glaring.
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Re: The Future of Lakewood
« Reply #2107 on: July 28, 2022, 08:43:49 PM »
Don’t see a reason to care… this is not a chilul hashem. TLS is geared towards and caters to frum readers, if you don’t like it get your (fake)news somewhere else…

Causing eivah is an issue and very simple for them to avoid.
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Re: The Future of Lakewood
« Reply #2108 on: July 28, 2022, 08:58:17 PM »
Causing eivah is an issue and very simple for them to avoid.
Don’t see an issue with eivah.. non frum will always hate, not that many eino yehudim on there.. and either way it makes sense for people to be more sensitive to people within their own community.

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Re: The Future of Lakewood
« Reply #2109 on: July 28, 2022, 09:24:09 PM »
Don’t see an issue with eivah.. non frum will always hate, not that many eino yehudim on there.. and either way it makes sense for people to be more sensitive to people within their own community.
If you're not mature enough to use the internet, then get off. TLS is not qualified to represent Jews and causes us a lot of trouble.

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Re: The Future of Lakewood
« Reply #2110 on: July 28, 2022, 09:39:44 PM »
Don’t see an issue with eivah.. non frum will always hate, not that many eino yehudim on there.. and either way it makes sense for people to be more sensitive to people within their own community.

Sensitive to your own, and publicly insensitive to others. Here’s a great example from tonight



@CountValentine Would like to hear your take on this
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Re: The Future of Lakewood
« Reply #2111 on: July 28, 2022, 09:44:20 PM »
Not understanding the issue.
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Re: The Future of Lakewood
« Reply #2112 on: July 28, 2022, 09:58:59 PM »
Not understanding the issue.

All the local Lakewood news sites are Jewish-owned, never publish a single negative detail of a story involving Jews (even if it’s a major story covered elsewhere), while covering every last detail of every minor crime of others. I find the obvious bias to be wrong, distasteful, and sways people towards Jewish hate.

How about you?
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Re: The Future of Lakewood
« Reply #2113 on: July 28, 2022, 10:16:45 PM »
All the local Lakewood news sites are Jewish-owned, never publish a single negative detail of a story involving Jews (even if it’s a major story covered elsewhere), while covering every last detail of every minor crime of others. I find the obvious bias to be wrong, distasteful, and sways people towards Jewish hate.

How about you?
This has been amazing since I came back. I agree mostly with you also!
I don't know if it sways them to hate. They might pretend that is the reason why but most likely they already hated them.
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Re: The Future of Lakewood
« Reply #2114 on: July 28, 2022, 10:29:22 PM »
This has been amazing since I came back. I agree mostly with you also!
I don't know if it sways them to hate. They might pretend that is the reason why but most likely they already hated them.

Well, welcome back! 

I think the majority that will hate, always hated, but now hate more. But I also think that others may be swayed to hate. If I was on the other side, I can see myself start to have an unfavorable view.
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Re: The Future of Lakewood
« Reply #2115 on: July 28, 2022, 10:29:48 PM »
TLS is not qualified to represent Jews and causes us a lot of trouble.
If someone would build an opinion of frum Jews in Lakewood solely from TLS, they would come out with a caricature of an anti-vax, Second Amendment nutjob who thinks the entire world is out to get them. And loves gossiping and buffing.

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Re: The Future of Lakewood
« Reply #2116 on: July 28, 2022, 10:40:02 PM »
As usual, I don't know what to think. Horrific story, by all accounts, with multiple victims. May we know of no more suffering.

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Re: The Future of Lakewood
« Reply #2117 on: July 28, 2022, 10:42:23 PM »
All the local Lakewood news sites are Jewish-owned, never publish a single negative detail of a story involving Jews (even if it’s a major story covered elsewhere), while covering every last detail of every minor crime of others. I find the obvious bias to be wrong, distasteful, and sways people towards Jewish hate.

How about you?
I doubt the Lakewood Thkoop was ever accused of being in good taste.
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Re: The Future of Lakewood
« Reply #2118 on: July 28, 2022, 10:48:25 PM »
Well, welcome back! 

I think the majority that will hate, always hated, but now hate more. But I also think that others may be swayed to hate. If I was on the other side, I can see myself start to have an unfavorable view.
Maybe just maybe you have hate to some extent to the people/ideology that cause TLS to have such a (frum) hashkafa… don’t mean to offend at all and you’re probably very nice in person but many Jews have this “problem”… some more than others…

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Re: The Future of Lakewood
« Reply #2119 on: July 28, 2022, 11:50:54 PM »
Maybe just maybe you have hate to some extent to the people/ideology that cause TLS to have such a (frum) hashkafa… don’t mean to offend at all and you’re probably very nice in person but many Jews have this “problem”… some more than others…

Perhaps you are right that I’m hateful, I’m always open for introspection. However I commend the fact that they don’t publish LH and have never said otherwise, my issue is what they do publish.
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