Unless for some reason you absolutely have to use a different bank, theres no reason not to go with Cap1. No monthly fee ever, even for over 18s, no foreign fee even on the Debit Card...
I set up a Cap1 360 Money for one of my sisters... (You dont have to be the parent...), I'm still joint with her, theoretically could still see her spending but she more or less just uses it for when she travels (no fees...), and to deposit checks or dollars that I send her from EY to put in my account.
You can set it to move money in and out of your accounts in other banks on any schedual you wish.