I, for one, am certainly not going to put on my design hat, parse your website, and make discrete suggestions as to column width, font color, and logo tweaks. There are people who do that for a living who are much better than me. There is simply no denying that DDMS needs a face lift. It's called adapting and investing in your business.
You haven't updated since when, 2007? That's an eternity. MySpace was worth about $12,000,000,000 (that's billion) in 2007. You haven't updated since then.
Sure, people dislike change, but without change there would be no babies, no promotions, and no sunrise. It's a fact, a necessary fact, of life.