well, being as this is ddf, im sure many of the members on here vacation without their kids sometimes. ( im not talking to pbaruch, zow, whyme etc. type) dont you farm out your children then? do you have every member of the prospective family undergo psychological fitness testing? who is to say kids are safe anytime anywhere? i understand that placing kids in someone's custody for three weeks is an awesome and graver responsibility, but i believe that its not all that different from what many people do albeit in a different version.
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