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Re: Silent Killer
« Reply #600 on: June 05, 2017, 04:44:28 PM »
Tri state area. (It was called silent for a reason...)

approximate age? teens? early 20's? seems a few since Pesach....
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Re: Silent Killer
« Reply #601 on: June 05, 2017, 04:54:54 PM »
approximate age? teens? early 20's? seems a few since Pesach....
Late 20s with kids

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Re: Silent Killer
« Reply #602 on: June 05, 2017, 04:58:05 PM »
Late 20s with kids

terrible.  :'( Just happened a few weeks ago, early 30's with 4 children. Accidental.
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Re: Silent Killer
« Reply #603 on: June 05, 2017, 06:40:40 PM »
Aren't police also suspecting that Aron in BP was also a case?

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Re: Silent Killer
« Reply #604 on: June 05, 2017, 06:55:59 PM »
Aren't police also suspecting that Aron in BP was also a case?
Yeah, the theory is he popped pills rolled himself in the blanket, duct taped himself rolled down the stairs into the basement closet.
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Re: Silent Killer
« Reply #605 on: June 05, 2017, 08:12:34 PM »
Yeah, the theory is he popped pills rolled himself in the blanket, duct taped himself rolled down the stairs into the basement closet.
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Re: Silent Killer
« Reply #606 on: June 11, 2017, 04:58:21 PM »
Any more recent stats, how common is Yid Suicides?

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Re: Silent Killer
« Reply #607 on: June 25, 2017, 12:12:39 AM »
Another one. When will this end?
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Re: Silent Killer
« Reply #608 on: June 25, 2017, 12:13:29 AM »
Another one. When will this end?
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Re: Silent Killer
« Reply #609 on: June 25, 2017, 12:38:57 AM »
Another one. When will this end?
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Re: Silent Killer
« Reply #610 on: June 25, 2017, 01:08:45 PM »
What is a Silent Killer? overdose or suicide?

and how can a father of children death be kept Silent?

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Re: Silent Killer
« Reply #611 on: June 25, 2017, 01:12:32 PM »
What is a Silent Killer? overdose or suicide?

and how can a father of children death be kept Silent?
Both
20 y/o girl
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Re: Silent Killer
« Reply #612 on: June 25, 2017, 01:13:39 PM »
20 y/o girl


terrible.  :'( Just happened a few weeks ago, early 30's with 4 children. Accidental.

BTW I know of an overdose last week in Monsey too.

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Re: Silent Killer
« Reply #613 on: June 25, 2017, 01:51:44 PM »
From Whatsapp: In the last week we lost 3 young souls to the war with drugs. A 30 year old girl from Flatbush. 22 year old boy from Monsey and a 22 year old girl from Boro Park. I know that people want to keep it quiet - I, Zvi Gluck, ask that we make noise. Lots of it. Maybe if we make more noise, people will get the help they need.  Sadly, many people are looking for help, but can't afford it. And it isn't as popular to pay for someone's rehab as other worthy causes. Let's work together and change that. Let's break the stigma associated with addiction. Let's get people help. And let's stop talking about overdoses and start taking about how people are getting help.

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Re: Silent Killer
« Reply #614 on: June 25, 2017, 01:59:23 PM »
Doesn't the existence of a stigma create a barrier for some from become addicts?
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Re: Silent Killer
« Reply #615 on: June 25, 2017, 02:08:25 PM »
Doesn't the existence of a stigma create a barrier for some from become addicts?
IMO no stigma in the world will stop someone from becoming an addict. One is either pre-disposed or not.

If youre saying, for instance, a frum yeshiva bochur wouldnt get involved in drugs because s'past nit. They get hooked on cigarettes clandestinely at first and then its out in the open. Same with any other addiction. At first its בצנעה...then its בפרהסיה.
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Re: Silent Killer
« Reply #616 on: June 25, 2017, 02:33:30 PM »
IMO no stigma in the world will stop someone from becoming an addict. One is either pre-disposed or not.

If youre saying, for instance, a frum yeshiva bochur wouldnt get involved in drugs because s'past nit. They get hooked on cigarettes clandestinely at first and then its out in the open. Same with any other addiction. At first its בצנעה...then its בפרהסיה.
Is there science to back that up? It is either true or untrue not subject to opinions of the non CD kind. If true let's call back the psychologists since it is something medical not psychological.

You do not think that there are some who resist that next step due to the stigma?
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Re: Silent Killer
« Reply #617 on: June 25, 2017, 02:43:12 PM »
Is there science to back that up? It is either true or untrue not subject to opinions of the non CD kind. If true let's call back the psychologists since it is something medical not psychological.

You do not think that there are some who resist that next step due to the stigma?
Plenty of people hold themselves back for various reasons including stigma. But no amount of self-control can stop an addict in the throes of their addiction.

One has to work on themselves to hold back from getting caught up. Many are able to. Many are not.

And since when is psychological mutually exclusive from medical. Your refusal to admit that there is a problem without scientific evidence when the boots on the ground are telling you all you need to know is indeed telling. Keep your head in the sand. Keep finding excuses why you wont believe this or that fact on the ground.
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Re: Silent Killer
« Reply #618 on: June 25, 2017, 02:46:33 PM »
Plenty of people hold themselves back for various reasons including stigma. But no amount of self-control can stop an addict in the throes of their addiction.

One has to work on themselves to hold back from getting caught up. Many are able to. Many are not.
sounds like we are in agreement. If so we should make sure that the stigma stays so that more and more people would have that as an incentive to hold themselves back.
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