Everything i said above.
When Bobov and Satmar and Belz and, and, and...decide to allow space for 12 step programs in their facilities AND the stigma of going to such programs is removed (big AND) then you have alternatives. Until such time as you can do 90 in 90 without going to a church facility you have no alternative.
Sorry for taking this a bit off topic, my oldest brother (at this point already a victim of this silent killer
) went a good few years ago to those programs and meetings, my family lives smack in the middle of chassidsha town and the entire neighborhood knew exactly what was going on with him (yea he made some noise on the street) (when the yankees lost a game) and my mother did not kick him out of the house, did not hide at all the fact that he was getting the help he needed and was pretty openly proud of him that he was able to keep sober for like 2 years